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  Posted by: momadoc

  Posted: 07/19/2018

  momadoc commented on the discussion I miss....

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted: 07/19/2018

  momadoc commented on the discussion Still lonely.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Still lonely

  Posted by: momadoc

  Last Reply: momadoc 07/19/2018

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  i have been here before.i have stayed in this marriage for past 10 years.  We have not been intimate during that time. I have stopped wearing my wedding ring.  I have no interest sexually.  I have no romantic intentions with my spouse.  I am considering leaving.  Financially I will be screwed but I am not sure I want to stay.  Momadoc

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted by: momadoc

  Posted: 07/06/2018

  momadoc commented on the discussion Still grieving after all these years....

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Still grieving after all these years...

  Posted by: momadoc

  Last Reply: Ldmessing 07/10/2018

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  spouse came out as crossdresser but really a femme fatale wannabe.  Happened after 21 yrs of marriage.  Stayed in marriage because my life savings now in trust.i have been leading a really lonely life right beside my spouse.  My life is challenging and rewarding but lonely.  My «he is really a she” is not the icebreaker you might envision: more like an ice maker.so I have pursued all of my own interests and activities and plan my life the way I want without thought about the...

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted by: momadoc

  Posted: 10/15/2016

  momadoc commented on the discussion still lonely after all these years.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted: 10/14/2016

  momadoc commented on the discussion still lonely after all these years.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: momadoc

  Posted: 10/14/2016

  momadoc commented on the discussion still lonely after all these years.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  still lonely after all these years

  Posted by: momadoc

  Last Reply: birdie23 10/20/2016

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  I am a cis female married to what I thought was a man almost 30 years ago.10 years ago, after 20 years of marriage, he came out to me that he is transgendered and wants to be a woman.I am older, I stayed, thinking that maybe companionship is okay. Not.I focused on me over the last 10 years and that has been good.I also thought that many things that confused me about our relationship began to make sense.  He would stare at other women, to try and get fashion ideas....He was not very into the...