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- I just turned 50. My birthday was wonderful. I got strange calls from my ex's mother and sister, wishing me a happy birthday, and that they think that my ex is plotting against me, and I should be afraid. Odd things have been happening. All my...
- My daughter left me years ago, I am used to it. I got divorced almost 5 yrs ago, extremely happy about that. My son moved out a month ago, trying to process what happened. He apparently said he couldn't live with me because alcohol was too easy...
- Saw it coming. When he turned 18, still a Sr. in high school, he was never around when it was my designated time. He was busy working, sleeping over at friends, busy with sports, student coucil, other activities, I just trusted him -- a little.My...
- Do you think we are HSP we attract others?My boyfriend is HSP, won't admit it, but I think it's why we have been kindred spirits for 30 years, even through our failed marriages.I have a small apartment attached to my house (used to be a garage). My...
- I am from a family of alcholics. I am one also, lost my daughter because my abusive husband, her father, turned her. I wasn't that way, it turned when he turned. She's 23, hasn't spoken a work to me since she was 18.But, I heard many times that...
- After 22 years of marriage, I wanted/needed a divorce many times, but stuck with it for my children.I finally broke. This time, 4 years ago, my volunteer work interferred with my husband's plan. Half hour before my shift was over, I got called in....
- I always overthink. It's probably why I don't sleep.I'm spending the morning, worrying about the weather, driving to my sister's house, dogs home alone, my boyfriend hunting, and son going to ex's moms (who is not doing well). Plus, it's my 14 yr...
- I hate holiday season, but feel I'm in a better position than I was 5 years ago. Then, I was planning divorce, my ex got severely injured, I put off the divorce 2 years waiting for his recovery, finally happened, then 1/2 my family and friends cut...
- I hate putting my 18 yr old son through questioning, and ex-H won't speak to me, so, I went to the internet to find out what's going on with ED. My ex did share an article she wrote about a year ago, and told me to "use it wisely, she doesn't want...
- My best friend has been my friend over 28 years. We endured a lot over the years. Both of us marrying, divorcing, and personal health issues.It doesn't bother me that she is still friends with my ex. What does bother me is that she thinks I'm...
- See the commercials about the man who fell asleep with his contacts on? I have the same contacts, fell asleep in them waiting for my son to come home from work, and ended up with this severe eye infection. I am going on week 4, still infected, but...
- I already have ED. I'm confident my son won't do that to me, he knows how I feel, but he's doing it to his father.I left the marriage because I couldn't take controlling behavior. And, I gather my son is his next casualty. I'm trying to...
- My ex set up this wacky 50/50 schedule. 5 days/2days, 2 day/5 days.It's been 3 years my boyfriend and I are confused which weekends he here. All I know is he's here Mon. and Tues., with his dad Wed. and Thurs.Weekends, I have no clue. He works...
- My son was at the State track meet, he took 3rd in pole vault. A wonderful accomplishment.My ex did e-mail me pictures from the meet, but also added that the pictures were taken by my best friends ex-husband.I didn't realize they were such good...
- Mother's day, went out with my friend, she mentioned my ED getting awards at college. She knows my daughter wants nothing to do with me, but it's the other friends and family that I can't deal with. I lie, pretending I know what she's doing, and...