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• Resurrection After Rape
  

  what to decide

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  Posted: 03/06/2019

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  Dear survivors. It has been so long since I posted something new. I ws on my internship at KLM. Had a blast but now it's time to get serious. I've decided that I want to report my rapist. It has been a little bit less than 2,5 years. I feel like I'm ready to do this part of my healing journey. I have an informative appointment tomorrow. 1p.m. Dutch time. I am torn between two things. If I sue him and he gets convicted, he might go to jail for up to twelve years. I know he deserves to pay for...

• The healing process, life after rape.
  

  What should I do?

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  Last Reply: LCB 05/20/2020

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  Dear survivors. It has been so long since I posted something new. I ws on my internship at KLM. Had a blast but now it's time to get serious. I've decided that I want to report my rapist. It has been a little bit less than 2,5 years. I feel like I'm ready to do this part of my healing journey. I have an informative appointment tomorrow. 1p.m. Dutch time. I am torn between two things. If I sue him and he gets convicted, he might go to jail for up to twelve years. I know he deserves to pay for...

• The healing process, life after rape.
  

  Hey

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  Posted: 07/11/2018

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  I just want all of you to know that I send love to every single one of you and even though I live in The Netherlands, I feel really close to you guys. Where are you from? Bisous, Lilac 

• The healing process, life after rape.
  

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  Posted: 07/11/2018

  Lilac_Larkspur commented on the discussion Rape Survivor.

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  Posted: 05/31/2018

  Lilac_Larkspur commented on the discussion Rape Survivor.

• The healing process, life after rape.
  

  #MeToo

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  Last Reply: mol247 05/13/2018

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  Dear survivors,I was doing really good after a really deep low when I got triggered again. Now I'm all fxcked up. How do you guys deal with triggers?Hugs and kisses,Lilac

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  Posted: 05/03/2018

  Lilac_Larkspur commented on the discussion It's Time.

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  Posted: 01/04/2018

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  Posted: 01/04/2018

  Lilac_Larkspur commented on the discussion New year new me?.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 12/29/2017

  Lilac_Larkspur became friends with Remiah.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 12/29/2017

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• The healing process, life after rape.
  

  New year new me?

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  Last Reply: Remiah 01/04/2018

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  Hi guys, I want to start by apologising for being absent the last fiew months. It has been a rollercoaster and I honestly didn't know what to write about. Instead, I've been reading, going to school and trying to love myself a little more everyday. I hope that although I was absent, you guys know that you can always inbox me for some free support. It's almost 2018 ans I am ready for the next chapter of my life. I don't believe in the new year new me stuff. I'd rather say new year, new...

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  Posted: 12/29/2017

  Lilac_Larkspur commented on the discussion Anniversary.

• The healing process, life after rape.
  

  Did something great!

  Posted by: Lilac_Larkspur

  Posted: 08/17/2017

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  Ok so ever since the rape happened. I felt like my body wasn't mine. I used to feel the same way because of my childhood abuse traume but it just got magnified to a point where I literally didn't think my body was mine. I also was strongly against showing any of my skin ( I still am but in a different way) With the summer coming up I was telling myself no. No you cannot go out and enjoy yourself because you were raped. No, no one can see you in a bating suit because they will be able to tell...

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  Hug

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  Posted: 08/17/2017

  Lilac_Larkspur sent a hug to notalone00