Urinary Incontinence Support Group

Urinary incontinence is the involuntary excretion of urine from one's body. It is often temporary, and it almost always results from an underlying medical condition. Stress, functional, and urge incontinence are the most common forms. Share with other support group members and learn from their stories and experiences.

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  • andyr

    finding the right nappe

    hi can any one hlep been looking for nappies that i can wear in the day and night and that hold a good amount and feel not ot bed when im at work or pads that i can try not been in them long so trying to find the ons that work for me many thanks 
  • I_like_cats


    Does anyone have issues during intimacy? I always get a huge amount of anxiety when there is the potential to be with someone because I am afraid of having an accident on them / in front of  them. This sort of thing makes me despondent since I feel that I will never find a partner who is understanding. 
  • deleted_user

    Your Adult Diapers Choice

    Finally managed to register here and was looking for what other people's thoughts were on adult diapers they have been using...I tried Depends but it just wasn't enough and caused me too many problems so I went with something a little higher end...I bought the Secure X-Plus adult diapers from I believe Secure Personal Care and they have been working fantastically for me. Any thoughts on others...
  • las2

    Don't know what to do

    Hello,I am new to the group and happy I was able to to join. 2 years ago I had a couple of accidents at work and went to my doctor to found out I have stress inconstinace. I have been to a urologist and started going to a pelvic floor physical therapist. I felt like it was getting better but for the last three weeks I have noticed a musty smell at my desk and I think its from my accidents. I...
  • Celticscott86


    Hello all,  This is my first support group experience. I have been dealing with frequent night time accidents and the occasional day time accident if I am overly stressed. This all started last August when I started having panic attacks . While I have always been someone who has had to wake up at least once a night to use the bathroom it was just this past year that I started having acidents due...
  • heyjude68

    The Highs and Lows

    As I learn to live with incontinence, I'm learning what works fot me and what doesn't.Trying to pretend I'm not incontinent does not work for me. I have gone from trying to keep my bladder empty by going to the bathroom every two hours, during the day and dealing with pads and leakage and the occasional full on accident to wearing a pull up all day and just changing when I need to. I am wearing...
  • Rosa


    Not so much have any serious bladder incontinence. Mine more stress and aniexty related. But any way Hello I am rosa. I am 19 years old girl currently dealing with alot of physcological and life issues that seem to be working themselfs out. I am a bedwetter an no shame in that. I have accidents when toilets arn't easily accesbile no shame in that. I tend to have 10-15 min to get to a toilet when...
  • Darling-Dare-I

    My bag of Poise is the same as your grandma's

    Hello,I am new to this support group, and it seems to be the only resource out there for young adults with enuresis.I was diagnosed at 19, having had the condition my whole life.I haven't worn underwear without pads for most of my life, and actually feel naked without them.Most recently, as my condition progresses, and my doctors twiddle their thumbs, bedwetting has turned from a rare and awful...
  • uhohALLbetter

    ?? A foley to get some dry time??

    I normally wear diapers daily but I'm ready for some dry time.  My bladder isn't going to let me stay dry without some form of protection.  I've considered using a Foley Cath with a leg bag for a month to get some time out of my diapers.  Have any of you tried this?  Would you recommend it?
  • Sheldon24

    Diaper selection help

  • uhohALLbetter

    The "tests"

    I have another dr's appt in the morning and I have a question for the group.  Do all the tests that the era like to do really tell them anything or is it just another way to drain money out of the insurance co's pocket?  I have noticed a lot of posts saying that despite all the tests they do they don't know what's wrong.  Is it worth the agony?
  • After the uro's idea of a prostate infection not working and getting fed up with some other things at work I took last week off work (paid vacation time) and by Wednesday morning almost had control again, I never did totally regain control but it was getting better by the day. I got back in my log truck this morning about 3:30am and have filled 2 confidry 27/7 diapers (It's 4pm local time now...
  • PelvicWhat

    Pelvic floor therepy

    Hi there. Has anyone else here been to pelvic floor therepy? I find it so hard for me to follow her instructions. I need to drink 7 cups of water through the day but more if I drink caffeine than she wants me to pee every 2 hours to train my bladder. But im finding my self peeing every hour and always while driving home in a diaper. I find myself wearing depends real fit which work great. But the...
  • DiaperedForLife

    Totally urine and bowel incontinent

    I'm a 27 year old male, after I got into a four wheeler accident the nerves in my lower back got massively damaged. Now I'm totally incontinent. I don't feel it until I'm wet or having a bowel movement. I'm embarrassed, I feel ashamed and don't want to even leave the house most days. Does anyone have any tips for the day to day life of wearing diapers 24/7? Thank you for listening, I needed this...
  • Bubblebean98

    Young and Useless

    Hi guys, so im new to this whole support group thing, so forgive me if i say the wrong thing. But does anyone ever feel like, especially when you go for appointments with the urologist, that everyone with urinary incontinence is older, like im 18 and ive had these kind of problems all my life, but the actual incontinence started when i was about 13, so i have now been dealing with this for...