Checking in today was a lazy day slept most of the day so nice had the whole week off, made it through the week without lying. Also went to visit wife grandparents and decided to pay their bills things are good.

Day 57 - No lies, exaggerations, or omissions

Day 27 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Day 97 - No Lies

Day 1 - Being real, listening, being more attentive, and watching what I say to others.

Yesterday, I mentioned something to someone that my wife and I discussed we wouldn't discuss with anyone. This person knew about the topic we were not divulging, they just didn't know some of the details. They asked me a question about it when I was visiting them, and I just told the process of what we're going through, and slipped up, telling them about the item I was to not divulge. I owned up to my wife when I got home.

Fair to say she is not happy with me, and is now not talking to me. I need to think before I speak!! :(

Checking in was pretty busy today, hung out with daughter than we cooked food with family. Just trying to keep it honest and lie free.

Hello all.

It's been a rollercoaster since I've started. It's not been my thing checking in everyday but it helps that I am reminded by your updates everyday. Thank you

My lies have caused a lot of pain to those around me. I've almost lost my family. Still a very real possibility. I believe my commitment to the truth is what saved me from entering one of my darkest chapters of my life. I've revealed so much of me that is false and exposed an empty core. From this point onwards because there is nothing false I can start genuinely building a new identity.

My wife wants to believe so badly. She wants a divorce. I could still lose my home. My son. ( he'll! Even he is giving me lectures )

If your going to change... Have both feet in it. If your not ready to change then that's okay too. Just don't set yourself up for failure. Because you'll just sink. Way deeper..

I am reaping the rewards of telling the truth. I'm holding on to what's important Because of it.

And it's making me happy.

ultimately this is what I've learnt so far....

if you lie, to yourself or others you have no respect. If you have no respect, you don't care. And if you don't care. You cannot truly love.

I've got a long life ahead of me. I have a sence of direction now. And it is guided with truth.

Checking in, Just trying to deal with a difficult daughter today going shoe shopping for her was a pain in the butt she is so picky, with her attitude being horrible I just didn't have energy to try to deal with it. Just made it through the day without lies. Tomorrow new day and time to do it all again.

Day 58 - No lies, exaggerations, or omissions

Day 28 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Day 1 - Daring Greatly: no masks, no armor, no shields - learning to connect and build relationships without fear and shame.

Today was absolutely amazing.I told no lies. it's hard to admit to the truth and you lied so long, he's actually feels really good.it took off so much pressure,it decreased my anxiety and depression.the longest time I never knew where that came from, and as the pressure mounted my anxiety became out of control. I am so happy to be making these changes because I didn't like who I was.I like the new me.

I also hate autocorrect

Hahaha

Day 100 - No Lies. Really happy to make that achievement, but still have a long, long way to go. Still have to remind myself to think about what I am saying, and to not be afraid of saying what happened. My family is the most important thing to me.

Day 4 - Being real, listening, being more attentive, and watching what I say to others.

Checking in just trying to get through annoyed wife and daughter keep playing dance central and just dance all day long so yeah the same song over and over playing. Other than just being honest and not lying made it through. Tommorow new day new goal to achieve.

Day 59 - No lies, exaggerations, or omissions

Day 29 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Day 2 - Daring Greatly: no masks, no armor, no shields - learning to connect and build relationships without fear and shame.

Checking in just made it and doing what I do to stay honest. Nothing new today just ordinary day. Tommorow off to work don't really want to go had a nice week.

Day 60 - No lies, exaggerations, or omissions

Day 30 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Day 3 - Daring Greatly: no masks, no armor, no shields - learning to connect and build relationships without fear and shame.