Today is day 1 for me (because I honestly can't remember whether or not I've lied in the past few days, so I assume that I have).

Checking in start of new week tied worked all night drove in morning to take daughter, wife gave me persent baught me call of duty. It nice we been having more dates despite being so busy. Bring honest is changing my life around and enjoying the lie free and depression free lifestyle.

Day 42 - no lies, no dramatic exaggerations, no omissions. Made amends for omitting yesterday.

Day 12 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Day 4 and no lies. I have had some good conversations with my wife. My fear is that things will slip back into normalcy and the lies will come

Checking in, just sick but was a normal day didn't have any incidents, and trying to continue to finish this week off and just make sure I do my daily goals.

Day 43 - no lies. 1 omission which was corrected later. 1 exaggeration which will be corrected.

Day 13 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Checking in, just doing the same routine staying honest and being a good human being. Need to continue it so I don't destroy what I have built so far and reversing the effects of hard work I have put into recovery.

Hi I'm Mare and I'm a liar. I've destroyed my relationship with infidelity and the lies I told to cover them up. Even when the jig was up, I trickled out the truth and not voluntarily. I tried to manage the situation and "spare" my husband's feelings. Really I was trying to protect the persona of myself I put out there. I fear my husband won't love me. If I'd have told him the truth about my behavior when we first got together, he probably would've dumped me. I feel so guilty about selling him a Cadillac and really being a Pinto. Am I lying to myself when I tell myself I am a good person? That my behavior isn't who I really am? I want to save my marriage. My husband looks at me like he doesn't know who I am.

Checking in, had good day did errands with wife and we went to eat had a date. She even bought me presents, I finally figured out most part of my life on how to handle this lying addiction and I think I can keep up long as I do my part and not go back to lying.

Good Afternoon! I'm Pam and this is the first time I have visited. I am a liar and don't know how to stop. I don't want to tell the truth because I hate confrontations and want to keep my loved ones happy. But my lies hurt them and I am truly sorry for the pain my lies cause them. I am afraid this may be the last straw. My husband thinks he has done something to make me afraid to tell the truth but he hasn't I just lie. I need help!

missed 4 days....

hi my name is alex. i was a liar, and i am getting complacent with this site. I am monitoring it in my head but that's an excuse. today is my 98th day of honesty!

Day 44 - No lies. exaggerations, or omissions.

Day 14 - Working to be more humble and not arrogant.

Hmm, it's been 9 days since my last post... Am I complacent, busy, distracted. My wife told me that I wouldn't be able to keep up with this site, maybe she was right...

I have visited on a few days, but decided to not post, maybe it's laziness, maybe I can't be bothered, I don't know.

Anyhow, to me the most important thing, is not whether I keep up the posting on here, it's the keeping up of being honest, trustworthy, continuing to learn, rather than be protective, and to listen to my life and what's going on around me. Pay attention, be thoughtful, considerate, assertive, and even a little selfish at times.

This is Day 79 for me of being honest and not being a liar.

To everyone out there, keep up your good work. It's important to remember that we have our lives to get on with. We can recover from lying if you persist and dedicate yourself to learning mode over protective mode.

My name is Mary and I'm a liar. I got on this site 2 days ago and have lied both days. I feel incredible anxiety and my hands and feet sweat. My husband asked me what was going on and I lied to him and told him I didn't know. I always think I can manage the situation by myself. I'm always afraid to tell him what I'm feeling. I cheated on him twice (almost 3 times)before we were married. I didn't tell him about it. Now 8 years later, it came out when I got caught in a lie. Instead of bucking up and admitting to everything at once, I took 4 months to dribble it all out. It's crushing him. He had to play detective and find out things on his own. All the while I was frozen in fear and couldn't just admit the truth. I literally couldn't admit that I made out with the guy. The truth wasn't even as bad as what my husband was imagining. But somehow I'm always just afraid. Afraid to hurt him but I think mostly afraid to admit the truth about myself. I'm afraid I'll lose him. I always want to minimize what I've done (got drunk and made out with 2 guys). Today we turned the tables around and I tried to imagine what I'd say to him if it was reversed. I wouldn't be happy and I would think he was an asshole. Sometimes I wonder why he's staying with me. He's an amazing man. When I look at him I see a man with integrity and courage. I am trying to find courage. Courage to be who I am. He gets angry at me when he finds out I lied but I just didn't want to hurt him. I've spilled everything I can think of but when I see how hurt and depressed he is, I feel anxiety. I just hope he stays with me so I can build his trust in me again. I want to be a wife he can be proud of. With integrity and pride in myself. I am trying to follow the policy of radical honesty from marriagebuilders.com.

Checking in end of week and went good so far things are nice. This weekend I'm home and spending time with wife. So I hope things go well and I stay good and honest. I'm excited we will get to watch movies and spend some time and daughter spring break started she is excited about Xbox one that wife bought me.