Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
yup hi everyone!
I have posted on here a lot over the last few years about my H. So many weird sexual things I tried to discuss with him but he was convinced he was a super stud without question.
His technique is kind of unusual in that he doesn't use his hips just moves his body - bit like he is doing that yoga move The Plank. Well I tried to gently ask him to grind those hips but he just doesn't get it, its like he's only half way in - come on!
SO Ive tried on top but he moves his hips away from me. All positions under the sun. He seems to prefer from behind or with my legs over his hips in a T shape but this doesn't get any hot spots for me.
So I bought a tantric book. Seemed to go down ok.
Tried gently asking for deeper, harder, tried to talk about the bump n grind. nope not getting it. I have been trying to get this on for 3 years now.
So I had a chat with him, I tried to be kind and show him what I needed but he took massive offence and now our daily, or twice daily sex ( which was a bit tedious with him doing his plank moves!) is down to once a week. He says he just can't believe I don't enjoy his love making!
So how do I get him past this. Its the last thing I need in this relationship to be honest, you all know its been difficult!
I have posted on here a lot over the last few years about my H. So many weird sexual things I tried to discuss with him but he was convinced he was a super stud without question.
His technique is kind of unusual in that he doesn't use his hips just moves his body - bit like he is doing that yoga move The Plank. Well I tried to gently ask him to grind those hips but he just doesn't get it, its like he's only half way in - come on!
SO Ive tried on top but he moves his hips away from me. All positions under the sun. He seems to prefer from behind or with my legs over his hips in a T shape but this doesn't get any hot spots for me.
So I bought a tantric book. Seemed to go down ok.
Tried gently asking for deeper, harder, tried to talk about the bump n grind. nope not getting it. I have been trying to get this on for 3 years now.
So I had a chat with him, I tried to be kind and show him what I needed but he took massive offence and now our daily, or twice daily sex ( which was a bit tedious with him doing his plank moves!) is down to once a week. He says he just can't believe I don't enjoy his love making!
So how do I get him past this. Its the last thing I need in this relationship to be honest, you all know its been difficult!
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Im not sure I worded it very well, but a guys response is always good to have. I really tried to be sensitive about it, now he's cross because it took me so long to spell it out - maybe I was too sensitive and should have addressed it earlier on but I did try - he didn't want to hear that I suppose.
He can only, or will only cum if I give him oral. He takes Viagra everyday too.
He has been very uncaring in bed in the past. Takes me when I am asleep, jumps off me in the middle of sex.
Feel like I've lost him.
Sheesh!
He should want to please you!
So how do I handle this and get us back on track, how do I make him feel better? We aren't going to get anywhere if we don't have sex!
Sex is important in a relationship and you have to ask yourself how long you want to be in this type of relationship where you are not getting your sexual needs fulfilled.
I can't tell you what to do but I know what I would do is find someone else.
Good Luck!
When is he going to start putting YOU first?
You are a wonderful, kind, thoughtful woman.
He needs to realize what a gem he has!
I have posted again .!