Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
yup hi everyone!
I have posted on here a lot over the last few years about my H. So many weird sexual things I tried to discuss with him but he was convinced he was a super stud without question.
His technique is kind of unusual in that he doesn't use his hips just moves his body - bit like he is doing that yoga move The Plank. Well I tried to gently ask him to grind those hips but he just doesn't get it, its like he's only half way in - come on!
SO Ive tried on top but he moves his hips away from me. All positions under the sun. He seems to prefer from behind or with my legs over his hips in a T shape but this doesn't get any hot spots for me.
So I bought a tantric book. Seemed to go down ok.
Tried gently asking for deeper, harder, tried to talk about the bump n grind. nope not getting it. I have been trying to get this on for 3 years now.
So I had a chat with him, I tried to be kind and show him what I needed but he took massive offence and now our daily, or twice daily sex ( which was a bit tedious with him doing his plank moves!) is down to once a week. He says he just can't believe I don't enjoy his love making!
So how do I get him past this. Its the last thing I need in this relationship to be honest, you all know its been difficult!
I have posted on here a lot over the last few years about my H. So many weird sexual things I tried to discuss with him but he was convinced he was a super stud without question.
His technique is kind of unusual in that he doesn't use his hips just moves his body - bit like he is doing that yoga move The Plank. Well I tried to gently ask him to grind those hips but he just doesn't get it, its like he's only half way in - come on!
SO Ive tried on top but he moves his hips away from me. All positions under the sun. He seems to prefer from behind or with my legs over his hips in a T shape but this doesn't get any hot spots for me.
So I bought a tantric book. Seemed to go down ok.
Tried gently asking for deeper, harder, tried to talk about the bump n grind. nope not getting it. I have been trying to get this on for 3 years now.
So I had a chat with him, I tried to be kind and show him what I needed but he took massive offence and now our daily, or twice daily sex ( which was a bit tedious with him doing his plank moves!) is down to once a week. He says he just can't believe I don't enjoy his love making!
So how do I get him past this. Its the last thing I need in this relationship to be honest, you all know its been difficult!
It's been a while since you posted this, so I am hoping some time to blow off steam and allowing him to think on this and what your sincere intentions are have resolved at least the frequency issue, if nothing else.