I wanted to be nice so told my first we could try it. We did...just took it a little slow then went to town. Once started it was OK, but I've gotta say it's very strange having a load shot up your ass. (Forgive my mouth)

Next time we got together I was all set for doggy style but was suddenly getting it up the ass again. (Let me tell ya, unexpected and no lube (either time) equals OWW. That was enough for me. (I was lucky he was just average)

I did buy a plug to use with someone as they say how great DP can be. But I do agree with you.....should be exit only. Lol

and if your gonna do it, load up the lube! LOL

Personally, I enjoy it. Mind you, anal sessions are the ones I am in control. Can't just have someone doing whatever they want to that hole.

I agree. In fact the woman is ALWAYS in charge of what goes in where for how long and how often.

That, I feel is how it should be.

Since SHIT comes out of the anal sphincter, no, anal sex is not healthy at all. But the very deviance of anal sex, that it's the "nasty hole", is its charm, its thrill.

Anal isn't my first choice for entry, pussy is, but if milady wanted me to get into her that way, I'd oblige her.

I wouldn't do it without a condom and lots of lube, dispose of the rubber in the trash outside and take a shower afterwards.

Koolman.... for that very reason I too don't think it too healthy.

I know of some who do enjoy it but both do enemas first...or as you say use condoms.

This all reminds me of rimming. (Another thing I don't consider healthy ... or a turn on.... 1 place my tongue does NOT need to go)

@sweetgirl18 u sound amazing u should not be shy about u beautiful body I hope u can see what other people see like u hubby not the negativity in the world

To sweetgirl18, I am so sorry you feel that way. I am sure your husband loves you. He does not care if you are perfect. Have you talked with him about how you feel? If you have not, I think you should. You need reassurance and I believe you will get that if you talk to him

Just don't like it or the idea. Only had a finger in mine but didn't like it.

That doesn't seem very natural, the anal thing. Eww

sweetgirl18, that seems so romantic!

I LIKE ANAL

I have had anal sex before when I was very lubed and he was wearing a condom. Wasn't really setting out to do it, I was having regular vaginal sex he slipped out and went to put it back in and put it in the wrong hole. Didn't hurt or anything but no I don't like anal sex because I know waste comes out of there. And I see it as an exit only. Some people like anal. Everyone is entitled to like what they want and do what feels good to them. There are a lot of nerves in the anus. I have had lovers give me a rim job or lick my anus and I have to say it is very sensitive and enjoyable but I don't like the idea that waste comes out of there. So I personally wouldn't lick someone's anus and stick my tongue in there. And although I admit it feels good! If someone does that to me I won't kiss them afterwards. There are just some things I am not comfortable doing. Just being honest.

I enjoy it - penis in bum as receiver or donor, fingers, especially ladies', toys. Stimulation of my cheeks and bum hole have been an important part of masturbation since I started.