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I had a date once with a guy. Back around January. We had spoke a few times on the phone before. So, he knew I didn't judge and was pretty open minded. He decided to tell me something about him. Wanted to see if it was something I'd ever do.
He is into infantalism. If you don't know what that is, it's like this.........
He likes to play the role of an infant in the sexual scene. There are "mothers" out there. And they will bring a diaper bag full of things: baby powder, adult cloth diapers, baby lotion, baby bottle, etc. and use each of these things when they are roleplaying.
The "mother" will tell the baby she needs to feed him and she will place him on her breast. Then she will pretend to burp him. Then she has to "change" his diaper. She will put baby powder on his butt and proceed with the cloth diaper. ETC.......
Has anyone ever heard of this? There is a community out there of people that are into this. There is only about 1 "mother" found to every 5 "babies". So, its hard to find a "mother" if you are into this. People will pay big bucks to be "mothered".
What are your thoughts on this? Anyone you know into this?
And yeah, there was no second date. lol I don't judge him. But there was just NO way I could have sex with him ever or us do anything knowing all this. :)
He is into infantalism. If you don't know what that is, it's like this.........
He likes to play the role of an infant in the sexual scene. There are "mothers" out there. And they will bring a diaper bag full of things: baby powder, adult cloth diapers, baby lotion, baby bottle, etc. and use each of these things when they are roleplaying.
The "mother" will tell the baby she needs to feed him and she will place him on her breast. Then she will pretend to burp him. Then she has to "change" his diaper. She will put baby powder on his butt and proceed with the cloth diaper. ETC.......
Has anyone ever heard of this? There is a community out there of people that are into this. There is only about 1 "mother" found to every 5 "babies". So, its hard to find a "mother" if you are into this. People will pay big bucks to be "mothered".
What are your thoughts on this? Anyone you know into this?
And yeah, there was no second date. lol I don't judge him. But there was just NO way I could have sex with him ever or us do anything knowing all this. :)
It most definately wouldn't be something i would do for anyone. It was bad enough cleaning my kids ass when she was a child.
I can see how some people need to be really mothered though and would not judge their decision for wanting to be infantasized.
Again though this is much less "hurtfull" than some other fetishes out there.....so what ever floates there boat.
Flutter? when you were with him like this did he gain any kind of sexual satisfaction from it? Did he cum? It just seems so odd to me.
Lets put some thought into this. Um, no.
I don't deal well with needy, clingy men at the best of times, let alone throwing a diaper on him?
The bright side of this, of course, is that I'm quite the catch in comparison, even with all of my neuroses.
sorry Jen...couldnt help it...
I've heard of it...that's a lil too off for my tastes