Families of SOs Community Group
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Thankfully, other than the damned AWA, PA isn't too bad.
still have signs warning people that 'communes' aren't Welcome in their town....I can just see t now...a caravan of parole officers heading out toward a commune of SO's checking papers and handcuffing and revoking while family and friends protest the unfairness involved. Anyway most big cities have "communes" for So's they are called Downtown Resident Hotels PO's like them because it simplifies the monthly "home visits" and they can have just one paddy wagon parked down in the parking lot for those the arrest and revoke and save gas and making numerous trips to the Holding Cells....
For those "Registrants" trying to get to Oregon...mostly OR says NO to Interstate Compact/ moves to their state because they already have enough SO's (at least that's what a Supervisor told me when I tried to get my 'significant other' Paroled to the state where we had lived before he was revoked and sent back to NV... I hate to sound so "negative" but come on....LOL? A commune full of SO's? (Sounds sort of like voluntary Civil Commitment?) a group of SO's on of off paper would just incite vigilantism and justify the Fears of all the Stranger Danger Haters surrounding the "SO Commune"
Secondly, please note that there is a very large difference between an intentional community and a "commune." Communes generally have shared living spaces, shared income with weekly member allowances, etc. In an intentional community, you are basically setting up a small, unincorporated town, with all residents having their own homes, certain amount of property, private incomes, etc.
Finally, the existence of police and vigilante harassment are actually two reasons that an intentional community like this could be a good option for SOs; "safety in numbers," if you will. It's much harder for police and vigilantes to harass or attack an individual than it is for them to do the same in a community full of supportive people who are versed in civil rights and SO laws, and who would be willing to defend each other against vigilantism, if it came to that.
Here is a link to someone with similar ideas that came on the board a while back. Might be someone worth talking too..
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To be clear, I'm not passing any judgement against people who don't fit this criteria, and I definitely do believe that everyone deserves a chance to rehabilitate and live their lives in peace; that's just not what we're trying to do, here.
I do a lot of support work, and I know some offenders who I am fairly sure were wrongfully convicted of rape or molestation. A few were falsely accused during a divorce or custody dispute. They would not be welcome, I presume.
I was wrongfully convicted and I am no longer on the registry. I am doing fine and would not be interested in your community, but I don't denounce the idea either, nor am I criticizing your with your idea.
Having said that, once you start "judging" crimes and saying one sex offender is welcome but not another, you might run into some problems. At that point, you do not really have a sex offender community; you have a community of your choosing.
I understand your point, but many guys who were convicted of molestation or rape are rehabilitated, while some who had victimless crimes have not learned their lesson.
If the criteria for entrance into the community is the nature of the crime---and nothing else is considered----I just don't know.
But it is your community and people can do what they want. I just hate when we start judging and saying "my crime is not as bad as your crime." We are all sex offenders. If we have been or are on the registry, we are all sex offenders.
Just my opinion.
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