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Please note that I am really really interested in you project and would like you to DM me so we can talk further.
Finally, I am working on testifying before a Senate Committee on my experience with both altered and false records.
Some offenders that I know have had their info changed and one county the registering person (I don't know what you exactly call them) wasn't updating information in the system at all. The people would go in and nothing would be updated in the system. It led to an offender committing a new offense and the DPS officers were completely lost as to why he was registered in the wrong county and no one knew where he actually lived. I know this is a really rare, but it was really strange.
I have also seen offenders listed with the wrong offenses. It was fixed, I don't know if it was a mix up or what, but now that you've mentioned what happened to you I will be sure to keep a closer eye on it. I am thankful we have not run into anything like you described.
I do think, with the right steps this is a viable idea. I hope you can get in working and it will be a positive and awesome experience for everyone involved.
He was only supposed to register for 10 years, that's what he agreed to in his plea agreement
Will there be a process that impartially evaluates the person or will this be like the interview process for a job? Some one reviews the file, if you don't make a great first impression at the interview there is no redepmtion? Will there be an appeals process if one is denied entry into the community?
This isn't about confusion, it is about you are actually trying to create something that is already done in our modern society, retry and punish based on your opinion of what happened in an individuals case. Where is the second chance? I don't see it. My husband was falsly accused and according to your criteria we would be disqualified as well. Mainly because his 'victim' didn't come clean in court like your's did.
I hate to say it as much as I like the 'idea' all I can see currently is a lot of holes in your logic and what will be your process of determining who will be allowed in to your community. Maybe it is cause your plan isn't coming across well here or maybe we are presenting sides you haven't had a chance to explore.
I would like to point out that regardless that you are tauting your community as rehabilitation based or whatever, when you interact with people it is like an ongoing group session in real-time and with no safety net. You can say you aren't going to be that kind of community, but if you are a bonified community, it will be one of support, comraderie and fellowship... That means that there will be counselling going on, just not in some office paying some shrink big bucks. It'll be held between the members of the community as time and need present themselves. It would be naive to believe that you won't be a rehabilitation community because when you analyze all people we are all rehabbing from something continuously, be it a boyfriend/girlfriend that just dumped you, the job you just got fired from, the relative that just passed away suddenly. Support and counselling will be happening in your community.
Don't get me wrong, I think that it is a great idea, but I find the interview process and investigation into past crimes unnecessary. For one main reason and it is something that the US DOJ will stand by. 90% of offenders convicted of sex crimes are first time and only time offenders. That means that all that investigating and interviewing by committee is only perpetuating the myth that registrants are all repeat offenders, when the facts say the opposite. Which is why I am having trouble swallowing the brilliance of retrying people so they can live in a community.
It reminds me of sitting in visiting and trying to keep my relation ship with my loved one going talking about "what we will do and where we will live" once he gets out and we are some where living and loving in some perfect (and technically possible) Never-Never Land out there beyond the Wall, beyond the restrictions, beyond their "Label" but then he gets out, we still love each other but and we have to face all the realities every other real relationship faces. No matter where we parole to, living, earning money, buying food and finding friends and getting along with each other as real people who may not either one be "Monsters" yet we all have our faults..all of us have problems getting along even with friends, even in a community or a marriage of like-minded souls...
Personally my husband and I are some of the lucky ones, I already owned my home and property in a rural area. I knew all my neighbors and we are a live and let live bunch, so we get harassed little if any. I don't feel held back other than the planning in advance to go anywhere outside the county and getting permission to do it, once off supervision I am going to assume things will be much of the same.
When people call me about the experiences they are having or the tough times they have already faced, I notice one common element, they all live in metro areas near large cities, such as Milwaukee, Chicago, Madison, etc. I understand the need to be near delivery, the idea that there are only jobs in metro areas, and that is where all your friends and family live. But move just a short 40 miles away and you are now in a rural area and the mindset has all of a sudden changed to "what is that neighbor of mine up to?" to a live and let live kind of thinking. I know few busybodies that live in a rural area, most people are just too busy with the plethora of things to do on a farm or homestead to give two shits about the neighbors other than if they are good folk and not get into their business too much. That applies to those on the grid or off of it.
I agree that it isn't fair that if someone wants to live in Downtown Milwaukee but they are on the list they are banished from living there because of unfounded fear that is perpetuated by the city council who ultimately passed that ordinance. But my thought has always been, I don't live for those other people, and if they don't want me then I surely do not want to contribute to their tax base, their salary that is derived from that tax base or anything that has to do with the area that really doesn't want my money. What I hear most is how they just can't live anywhere but a city, I have not heard many good responses to the 'why don't you move' other than they don't want to give up a night life, the illusion of work or I am assuming delivery (since it is what I miss most about living in town.)
It is probably why I find myself taking exception to the interview process that focuses on their sex crimes.
I guess I'm just too old to think a lighter shade of blame makes me better than no matter where I live or how much "unfair harassment" how much supposed danger my neighbor "presents" in comparison to me and mine. But then I do live in town and once lived in a "residency hotel" approved by the System for people like me and mine...