Families of SOs Community Group
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I'll use myself as an example: I was convicted of rape, but the girl in question admitted in court that she had been dishonest and that she had, quite literally, seduced me (when asked in court how the sexual contact came about, she admitted that we were talking when she kissed me and started rubbing my crotch.) So, in a case like mine, if we were to go solely on the charge that I was convicted of, I would be disqualified, due to rape being considered a violent crime. However, by evaluating each person's case individually, we would be able to look at the circumstances and context of my case, and make the determination that I pose no threat to the community.
Does that make more sense?
I read your introduction just a few minutes ago. Your charge, even though it was not forcible rape, was not statutory rape, but rape. So you do not plan to allow anyone in the community with a rape charge when you have one yourself??
Do you plan to read everyone's case files to determine if they should have indeed been charged with rape or that they were overcharged as you were?? If the criterion is no rapists or child molesters, will the criteria depend on the actual circumstances of the crime or the crime as recognized by the courts??
And what about CP offenders? Most people will claim that they have a victim. Are they not qualified?
Do you see the problem you will run into if you start excluding certain offenders??
If you exclude every offender that had a victim, there will not be many eligible offenders for the community to support itself.
But, as I said, it would be up to the community to make the rules and exclude who they wanted to.
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Yes, your last post makes sense. If you will look at the time stamp of my last post and your post, the time stamps are identical, 3:26 pm. You answered my concern at the same time I entered my post above.
Then I suppose you will have to have a committee who evaluates each case before allowing those offenders to live in the community. Since it is the people's community, then I would not have a problem with the committee. In fact, the committe would be a good idea.
That makes more sense.
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Exactly. My current partner and I are still fleshing out all of the details (this project is still in its infancy, and we won't be breaking ground until May, 2018,) but the basic idea is that there will be a board of directors who handle the administrative aspects of the operation, but with all decisions about new residents, new projects, etc being decided by the entire community, via voting.
Whose definition are we taking on violent? Someone could say since you are tier 3 you are violent. Are we taking the states at their word with every offender that they classified everyone correctly? I wouldn't do that if I were you.
In my situation I was a child who abused another child. I was a young teenager at the time, the crime was not rape, but still a contact crime. It was reported to the police after I wasn't a minor any more. They refused to charge me as a juvenile. They refused to have a lesser charge to make it a non registrable offense even though that outcome was supported by the victim.
The arresting officer who I had known me when I was younger had been a police officer for 15 years at that time and he told me that even 5 years ago they would never have charged this as a felony. My lawyer thought it was insane that the DA refused to budge and make it a non-registrable offense. I was given probation and had to register and that was that.
I have moved on with my life. I'm married, have a fairly decent job that keeps me above the median income line, and we have a house and live in a state with reasonable SO laws. I completed therapy, I completed probation, and I haven't had so much as a parking ticket since my arrest a long time ago yet I don't meet the criteria to live in this community.
Oh well it's the communities loss, I'm the best at charades and play a mean game of pictionary, don't even get me started on parcheesi -- you don't know what you are missing lol.
Sorry for the confusion, everyone. I knew what I was talking about in my own head, but the way that I worded it made it difficult for others to understand exactly what I meant.
You do not Step-up by Stepping-On other people. It does not make you the "better Person" That is precisely the reason Haters label us ALL horrible in order to leverage themselves Above all the "horrible people" like all of us.
Independent, those people would be overruled by our Charter and Constitution, which will lay out specifically what the purpose of the community is and how decisions and determinations are to be made.