Thanks to you all!! I cannot tell you how much you have all helped me, I got a LOT of insight, tips, help, support......this was just amazing. I am aware some of this is problems w/ me also, no one is perfect, and honestly, I am doing the best I can, it probably has to do with MY feeling unloved while I was growing up, and I DO feel terrible if I have an effect on my daughter. I do go for help, I will speak to my counselor once a week, and tomorrow when I speak to her, we are going to discuss all of this.
I would love it if she would come to counseling w/me also, or on her own, I've been very careful to bring this up, waited for the right time, was very gentle, but she wasn't interested in going. I will keep gently trying and eventually maybe she'll go to counseling. Yes I will tell her I love her, which I really do....
Thank you all, you're all good souls!!
Each week our Pastor puts a saying on the sign in front of our church and I especially like the one for this week. It says:Hi All. The last time the world was messed up I sent a flood. Just saying.LoveGodReally gives us something to think about.
Grilled cheese sandwiches or mac and cheese?