If this happens to you frequently, I suggest you re-evaluate your dating technique and become more familiar with the nuances of online "dating".

Nuance #1 - If she does not show interest, she is not interested.

ETA: As soon as you recognize this behavior, accept it for what it is. She is no longer interested. End of story. Don't continue wasting your time. If you rely on online dating and it isn't working, find something that does work. Like actually going out and meeting people.

I just reread all the responses. I see that you say you don't have any/many friends. Perhaps that is the place to start. Cultivate a garden of friends and see what blossoms.

I'm done with this conversation. Making me too mad. Your not listening . I'm done.

Hi, I would suggest to get off the grid. Meet people in the real world, if there is something that turns them off by yourself you'll know it, but I highly doubt there is. Meeting people in real life is certainly more fun than on social sites, and just use texts to set up dates once you meet them, the ancient way is far more challenging, but yields better results. Once you link the pleasure of achieving your goal to your mindset, than any approach anxiety will disappear.

The ancient path:
1. Notice something she made effort in...like clothing and complement her on that. Keep compliment simple....always smile, you'll get a better reaction
2. Ask question about the item you complimented her on
3. Introduce yourself
4. KEEP the conversion going...the are techniques you can use like 'cold reading' , 'conversational threading and so on
5. Keep encounter short...might be wise to end it with another compliment..maybe this time about her beauty or personality
6. Once you become natural, throw away method, this will allow conversation skills to grow

NOTHING BEATS EXPERIENCE AND NOTHING CAN COME CLOSE TO IT.

I'm no guru, but I had to learn interacting with people (not particularly linked to women), as part of my recovery. This was to kill the bond with the computer stuff (the porn) and form real social bonds with people.

Hope this helps!!!!

In Step 5. Using open ended questions together with cold reading or conversational threading is the best way of keeping a conversation going after introduction(breaking the ice). Don't interrogate, but be willing to share your experiences also.

Most important: Rejection is ALWAYS possible NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, so do not be scared of it. ALWAYS LEARN TO LET GO- this is one of the most critical skill, both in online dating and offline dating, but in online dating your brain gets flooded with all types of hormones of attachment, MAKING IT EVEN MORE DIFFICULT TO LET GO- same effect of pornography addiction.

Please use internet or any other technologies wisely.

As long as a person holds the. attitude that courtesy is a given, that person will try to hold others accountable for ghosting by sending multiple texts. Strangers don't owe us courtesy. You don't know someone you haven't met in person. Never insist upon answers. It will make you look obsessed and desperaite, Both are unattractive and often frightening for women. It's instinctive on the part of them, especially if they've ever been stalked. If you love someone, give them free will, expect nothing in return and you will often be rewarded by replies. You really must accept that the possibilities are endless as to why people ghost and that it may not be about you at all. Why worry about anyone you haven't heard a reply from? If they don't want to chat you anymore or haven't replied in a week or two, you are better off without them, because they will do it, again,. most likely. Chin up! You need confidence. You may be attaching too strongly and too quickly. I've ghosted lots of men in chat in my life. I have a bf, now. I used to feel the way you do, but not anymore. Usually, it's either that my personal life is being complicated by something else, or the guy messaged me too much. Lots of women online get stalked. Some get hacked by creeps. It's happened to me, and many women. One message is enough, then wait for a reply. You can't force people you've never even met in person to comply with your demands or urgency, and be emotionally and psychologically healthy at the same time. I hope this helps. If they block you, it's about you. If they don't block you, it's about them, I promise. ((Hugs))

I’m assuming ghosting has something to do with online dating or hooking up. When I was a kid before the internet we had to actually ask someone out to their face. Talk about rejection. But after a while you learn that the worst thing that could happen is they say no. Think about it how many times a day does someone hear no. It’s quite a lot actually and while it may sting your pride and ego it’s not the end of the world. So you have two choices curl up into a ball and quit or get back on the horse. Get back on the horse is the only way to go

I agree that going out in person is a much better, and more efficient even, way of meeting new dates. At a bar, a night club, sports event, hobby meetup, you have several to talk to, not just one person on the internet.... who may or may not even be who they claim to be (catfishing, maybe a kid playing a joke, fake person, someone already in a relationship... etc)

i know what you mean . i have been ghosted by so many ppl i have lost count...must be something i am doing wrong but i don't know what it is....ppl just vanish.....stop communicating with out a word right in the middle of a conversation......there is no closure ..no nothing!....so you are not alone in this.......guess it is not much help though........no one ever does what they say they will do....they make promises and break them every single time...., they say bff but it is just a lie......ppl just suck...