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Would you....

llmt
llmt
Ok, I'm sure this has probably been asked before and I'm looking for honest answers. Since we are or have been all in the same boat regarding divorce/separation/breakups, etc....would you ever consider getting remarried after going through such a trauma? If so, how long would you wait to do it? I'm really to the point where I don't think (no I know) I could ever trust anyone again..let alone date or get married to them. Just seeing what the opinions are out there.

--L
solongbye
solongbye
So the general consensus is no, we'll take penises without the body attached?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ummm yea, this wedding is about ME!!! Can we get back to how beautiful I'm going to look??? hmmmmffff!

*twirls in fairy lingerie*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Really? Ok, how about making ours and their's on the same date?
deleted_user
deleted_user
LMAO, solong! the concensus is cracking me up!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are smokin in that fairy lingerie, shootbaby!! do a hop skip!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Soso, do you have body now? I don't just hmmm...
llmt
llmt
I't my wedding and I'll cry if I want to ..cry if I want to..cry if I want to.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No. After being a serial monogamist for so long I am going the George Clooney route -- lov'em and leav'em alone.
deleted_user
deleted_user
instead of crying at wedding receptions, let's throw 'separation parties' and 'divorce parties'. we'll serve cakes like Shoots....not the decapitated groom avi, but check out her photo listed as 'divorce cake' where they are pointing a gun at each other, lmao!

First separation party is coming up....instead of white, wear black (black is hotter anyway).

we can give 'toasts' about how awful our new life without them...
deleted_user
deleted_user
did i just type how awful our new life without them?? WTF!!!

I was trying to say how awful they are or how GREAT our life is without them.....sigh....more coffee!!!
llmt
llmt
Fuck yeah...separation/divorce party...why the hell didn't I think of that...love the black idea too...the ugliest black dress we could find. And we could hand out blow up dolls and vibrators at the door or on the tables...
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is your very first breakup/divorce. People come into your life, play their part and then exit your stage. Then new players come in. Just do your play. If someone comes in that is meant for you you will start dating again. You won't be able to help yourself. Just breathe and be. You seem very nice, I think you will meet someone sooner than you think. Best of Luck to you friend.
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL!! Love the party idea lol

To answer your questions...I do not if i would remarry, if i do it would have to be awhile and the guy would have to be someone really amazing. I don't want to be in another screwed up marriage. As far as being in a relationship (dating) i would be in one but again i am not going to go out and look for one...if it happens it happens.
deleted_user
deleted_user
woah!!!! I didn't say UGLY black dresses! the ugly dresses belong at weddings... we will shop for HOT dresses.....and OK for the BOBs and blow ups...lmao!

instead of rings, we'll exchange phone numbers. ha! instead of a limo, we'll ride around in our beater cars (wait, maybe that's just me with a beater).....instead of throwing rice, we'll throw condoms....you get the idea... hee hee.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thanks to this thread. I had professed my love to soldier, then dreamed of flying penises....and dodged them in m sleep...OH MY GOD....WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME?????


Okay...I'm better. Have a nice day. I have to go to an obligatory family thingy. Now, I get to be subjected to emotional abuse. YAY!