Precisely, Misred.

And, as usual, Rman posts then never answers any of the questions that are asked in an effort to be helpful and supportive. Rman, you know that help and support is here, you simply have to actually want it and actually take it.

So: I say.... Mrs. Peacock in the Conservatory.

If you're talking about your marriage Rman, you've been here a year and a half.....and the only thing that's happened in that time, is that things have gotten worse. That's a long time Rman. Longer than my whole divorce. Longer than many have been on here.

What are you waiting for? Do you want to be going through this for the next 5 years? Ten? Twenty? How long do you want to live like that?

Nothing will change, until you change something.....

Whoa Anne that brings back memories. How about; Miss Scarlet with a wrench in the conservatory?

Well, you would definitely have to postiviely eliminate Mrs. White in the Ballroom with a Candlestick before you could go there, Misred.

I feel like I missed out on something neat, I never got to play that one. Anne, MisRed, did you usually win at that game?

...Dirty deeds and they're done dirt cheap
Concrete shoes
Cyanide
T.N.T
Done dirt cheap
Ooo, neckties
Contracts
High voltage

DONE DIRT CHEAP! **(excerpt from ACDC, Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap)**

Rman, I know a guy, who knows a guy, who has a cuz who has a brother in law, that knows a girl.....................

I don't recall how often I won, just that I played it a lot when I was a pre-teen.

@rbm I love AC/DC, but back when Bon Scott was alive

I loved playing CLUE. I had such a great strategy!!

Yes, MRed, Bon Scott made the band..IMO.

Rman where did you go?
Do you want support or not???

It does sound like and abusive situation on all sides.
It took me a long time to leave too. It takes what it takes but at some point you have to take some sort of action. If you can't bring yourself to leave then you need to take some sort of other action, like therapy.

No one can do it for you. You have to take some step... baby steps...
anything...

buy a book maybe...
see a therapist or a minister, w/e...
answer us... lol!

hugs and smooches man...

I'm here. I just don't always respond. I like to listen to everyones point of view. It helps me like that...

Mainly cause I'm not very smart...

That's nice, Rman.

Any chance you could actually listen to what we are saying?

So who is this woman you want out of a relationship with? We need all the details before we can provide advice rbaby

*smooches to you*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-XgvHPt1cg

just saying....

It is his wife mavs...