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Now Approaching Monk Status

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
It has been a while....a long while...since you know. Well..I think that I am approaching Monk Status now. Anyone else feel this way? Anyone approaching Nun Status?
deleted_user
deleted_user
You're only saying that Road 'cause I let you slap me while I'm sucking you off. Love me some beaner spew. (See? I said love while I was talking about sex. Maybe I'll get to go to heaven after all. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
OMG...ROAD...THAT'S HAWT! I want to...
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL, lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Heave, I seem to remember you saying that a cute girl at the grocery store was into you, and that you posted something about tanking a date.... I dare say you've had some opportunities at the plate. Which means that either these women or you chose not to have sex. Now all the guys here know what it's like to be shot down. But if the women were willing, then you chose not to have sex. This is fine, but realize it was your own choice. I've been divorced for over a year and haven't been out on a single date. This is my choice. And although I am lonely and really miss sex and intimacy, I realize this is the right choice for me right now.

I never did well with the whole one-night-stand thing either.....
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
I will wait until I find the right person. I have done the one night stand thing once and it was a huge mistake that I don't intend to make again.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have had only one experience with a chick being ruff back.. She through me against the wall a few times banging the back of my head, I have to say, at first it pissed my off but just made the sex HAWTer!

It was to this song.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=K1Zulx4mjHk
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's been so long since I've been intimate in any way or submitted to his self-serving lewd come on I don't even know how many years I've been chaste but I think 4 years or more. For some reason he'd made it feel dirty and I hated that he'd turned it into something vulgar or sleezy somehow and wanted to scream any time he touched me. I would lie about my satisfaction so he'd leave me alone. I tried to tell him how I felt but he'd make it worse by trying to fix the problem.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I thought I was a monk while I was still with my stbx. But now I have met someone special and she broke that bad chain. So, I said good-bye to the Abbott and started moving on!