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Now Approaching Monk Status

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
It has been a while....a long while...since you know. Well..I think that I am approaching Monk Status now. Anyone else feel this way? Anyone approaching Nun Status?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yep- Nun status here. As in none and Nun. It has been so many years, Sewing the habit collection. At least I know what I will be wearing on any given day, and who cares if I am having a crappy hair day, because it will be covered up by that really attractive gray and white hair habit. Who knew I would be trading it in for that really pretty, expensive, piece of useless crap that I wore to my wedding.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have been clebate by choice this year and its fucking bullshit.
Jenna7873
Jenna7873
o.O

that Enigma song never reminds me of celibacy - quite the opposite!

is it just me?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm usually on divorce after 20 years but tonight you all are pretty funny. Hey you young things, imagine this in your 50's.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Celibacy... I once heard it is a man that gives you life or takes it away??
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
I count my blessings that this happened in my 30's because I still have the chance to start over, find the right person, and have a family, God Willing.

Either way, this dry spell sucks but I am the type that won't go out and sleep with someone just to get laid. I will wait for a meaningful relationship and someone I feel a connection with. Casual Sex just isn't my idea of a good thing...Anyone else feel this way?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Is it possible to earn your virginity back?
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
I think that I have. They have a thing called born again virgins. We may be heading down that path!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think casual sex is a thing of beauty.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sucks to be you.


Kiddin..maybe..
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Yeah Joan...so are VDs...got to love them too!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so Mother Theresa...with a cigarette and a gin and tonic!
deleted_user
deleted_user
OK...well I've had a couple gin and tonics so I confess to having grown up in the "drugs, sex and rock and roll" era. That I ended up the mother of a SWAT cop would send some of my old pals into cardiac arrest....that I now think casual sex is NOT a good idea would polish them off!

If I want something meaningless I can just masturbate and not have to worry about keeping to one side of the bed!

There was that blunt enough?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Heave- you are lucky to be so young. You do have the chance to start over. You will. The years go very fast.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes Heave - because all sex acts not with a loved one lead to disease. Love makes all that yucky stuff go away. (Unless, of course your loved one is having casual sex behind your back - better just not have sex.)
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