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Now Approaching Monk Status

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
It has been a while....a long while...since you know. Well..I think that I am approaching Monk Status now. Anyone else feel this way? Anyone approaching Nun Status?
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Yep...but then again I always fear that I will end up being the subject of that song a pirate looks at 40.
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Joan...go hug a tree
deleted_user
deleted_user
casual sex is good if you can handle it heave, just not everyone can
deleted_user
deleted_user
MTM - he is only 8 years younger than you - why do you always act like your 100? LOL You are still young.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hold on I will translate for Joan.. I think I know what you are talking about.. Let me know if I'm right..

I think bootycalls are great, no strings attached.

A consistent bootycall that is ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good luck with that! lol
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Yeah...let's be like chimps and go and hump everyone in the community group. Sounds like a great idea. Wow, what a cool thing, casual sex. Hrm...didn't that lead to VDs and Aids and HEP C...but what a great idea. yeah...sex with a loved one can do that but the risks are far greater if you are sleeping around with a ton of different people!
deleted_user
deleted_user
We aren't all members of the choir like you Heave. Step of your high horse carefully - you might break a leg.
deleted_user
deleted_user
heave, casual sex does not mean you fuck a different woman every damn day, jesus, get with the program.

it just means sex without emotion. raw animalistic fucking, thats it. lust, not love
deleted_user
deleted_user
Bootycalls only lead me in the direction of going to Hell when I die. LOL.


Seriously though, Bootycalls are something that I don't think I could do. But i am just a gal who has only been with one guy in her life, so anything sex related freaks me out LOL.
deleted_user
deleted_user
crunch crunch
deleted_user
deleted_user
cigarette and crackers. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
heave only fucks Christian models he's in love with - didn't you know he was a moral beacon Soon?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dude I lived on booty calls for years. Even slept with one or two strippers. And no, bever caught anything. When you gotta do it, you gotta do it. As long as its no sick obsession. Its like SOON said. Dont knock it. Only ugly people knock it cause they are desperate.
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
ah to heck with it...I have been bucked off the high horse a few times but I got back on. The longer I go and the more stuff that I deal with the more I realize that I am pretty damn resaliant. I am like the energiser bunny from hell.

Sex is something that is an intimate bond, not something to be thrown around like a rag doll. Sex is a gift between a man and a woman to strenghten their bond as a couple and not a cheap parlor trick to be shared.