Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Missing friends

llmt
llmt
I have been having a moment for a while but I truly miss some here....

I miss Z: for her insight, she has marched the march, her caring words, and her boob shots

I miss RedRap: for her honesty, her intelligence, her brutalness, and yes caring heart, and her beautiful art photos

I miss Jo: for her bluntness, her street smarts, and calling you out, but also that caring heart when you really needed it.

I miss Soon: for his sex talk...lol, and his bluntness

I miss Jaken: well she is my Pocono girl, she calls it like she sees it, she is a good woman

I miss SFY: his advice was caring and open

I miss Woobs: she was a smart cookie and so right on so many things.

I dunno, just want admin that these people were the backbone to helping others, being here, sharing. You all need to get a grip on reality and realize in the grand scheme of things what is right and wrong for everyone on this board. Obviously, nothing anyone has done will change your minds, but it's sad really. These people could save others, but I guess THAT is not your concern. Exits.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I didn't say you don't offer support.
I said let them grieve. If it's annoying to you, don't read the thread.
deleted_user
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La Vie- Tell the fuz to make me breakfast already
deleted_user
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Bridget i was referring to the many many times i have read that there is no support left on here. I would think even you...being that you are back on DS, would take offense to that.
deleted_user
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No, I am not offended. I will stand up for anyone's right to speak. Anyone.

I might be offended it I thought I had some ownership here just because of seniority. I do not have ownership.

A place called "Daily Strength" SHOULD be all inclusive. A place set up for people to grieve should allow that. All people. Even the ones that annoy you. Even the ones who talk excessively about the same thing over and over.

Let them grieve in their own way. Stop trying to control it.
deleted_user
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I'm actually not trying to control it. Just saying that people are hurt and have a different opinion!
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Ok, then no need for chewing Dutch out. No need for standing and clapping at chewing Dutch out.

Now, you are free to seek out a newbie and offer some support.
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It's okay. I don't report people. Even when they insult me.
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Damn Beaners.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow.....So "Lavie...whatever your name is today...do you ever use anything else but that same old tale??? Sounds like projection to me ;)
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Hmm...well, you said it "a condescending thread". Nice ;)
Rman
Rman
All of you are fucking nerds...I'm just here trying to repair my marriage with a hot chick...you people are arguing words online...I win.
deleted_user
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I am so going to use the BU&D forum for any sociology projects I may have....I promise to change names to protect identities and stuff for any particulars ;)

ok...I'm loopy on meds...I'm going to bed....goodnight everyone!
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no Rman....I win...and thats final....no arguing about it damn it!!!
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The people that are mentioned in this original post, did not leave on their own... If they had, we would have most likely told them that we were happy that they were done with the healing process and were ready to move on.... that is not what happened... We are mourning their inability to be here.... You can talk about how supportive you are...blah, blah, blah.. but even you have to admit that these boards are dead now... 10 to 20 minutes between replies....
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I only voiced my discord at one person. Never at anyone else. My opinion of the events that transpired. Bella, you've helped me (and numerous others) since I got here, and I love you for that. I know there are people that have other opinions and they have every right to voice them.

I've seen very little in the way of attacking anyone but one person seen as the instigator of everything. A lot of us feel that person can be very manipulative, and don't trust that other people in the midst of their own messy situations can see everything clearly and be adults and not cause more behind the scenes drama and crap.

AND in none of these numerous threads have I seen anyone say there's NO ONE left here, but for a lot...much of our "core" support has fallen. We're not happy. We're not happy because of the lack of answers from DS.

A LOT of people are just avoiding this place like the goddamn plague, for fear of pissing off the wrong person. Afraid their "friend" is gonna report, or some random individual, or someone who appears to use the report button as much as their left-button on the mouse.


That said, can we all be adults and knock the snarky bullshit off?!?!



Now, I'm off to play pirate today. Play nice today, everyone!