Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
you know that point towards the end of a relationship where you feel so broken hearted and All you want to do is save the love you had... that’s where I am. I just wish I could not feel so desperate to hold on to someone that doesn’t feel the same. I’m so tired of loving and not getting the unconditional love in return ... I believe that true love never gives up.. so maybe I’ve never had true love then... just feeling so lonely and wishing this was just a bad dream
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
Is this a marriage, boyfriend....? How long are you together?
We're here if you care to share about what happened, how you feel, etc.
Hugs to you and welcome to the board.
I have done this for 17 yrs and am now getting out of it, but its hard because I want to hold on even though I know I shouldn't. My sons tell me I am so much better off but my heart keeps breaking.
I have said many times the last 2 months that I should be happy and jump for joy after 17 years of Hell, but I then have to wipe away the tears.
Have you thought about trying marital counseling?
You have to love yourself, value yourself. treat yourself with love.
Allowing yourself to learn and grow is a wonderful gift.
Surround yourself with people who want to see you succeed and grow. Those who tear you down cant help you grow.
Always vent to family friends and those who will listen. Talking it out helps so much more than holding it in.
Focus on yourself and live the life you want.
It's alot of things to accept and changes that will happen. Right now...take care of yourself...tell the important people of the dissolution of your marriage...parents, siblings, best friend...but everyone else can wait. I
True love doesn't give up...well sometimes the person who we choose to love...isn't worthy of our love. But that doesn't change YOUR capacity for love...and love you will have for a deserving person.
Sending you light and love!
Thank you for sharing.......
Reading these posts might help me to help others..
Love and healing to you all....
I can't know exactly whats going on from the outside,
Are you sure its the end. Have u tried counseling or going to your pastor. I don't like to see marriages end. You will know when your done, but God favors marriage.