Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It's official, circumstance with her friend changed and my wife will be moving in with her friend mid April when her friend's husband gets deployed for 9 months in Afghanistan.
I'm going to be alone for the first time in 10 years. The home that once had 4 kids running around will soon be empty, with just me living in it.
I'm going to open up to you guys if you don't mind: I fear loneliness, I fear being alone with nobody to love, touch, and hold tightly in my arms. I fear the single life, as I truly believe I was born to be a family man. I fear dating...that is if I find someone who would want to date an old 44 year old man. I feel I will never meet another woman with whom to share the rest of my life with. I fear spending the rest of my life as a lonely old man siting in a wheelchair facing an open window at an assisted living facility.
As superficial as this may sound, I fear that I will never find a woman as beautiful as my stunning wife. My friends and family used to joke about how a dork like me landed a hot Kate Beckinsale look alike. I was the guy people pointed when I'm with her saying,"He's either rich or has a big rhymes with rock". When in all actuality, she fell in love with me, because I wasn't rich and the size of my penis, let's just say, can't compete with a cucumber.
I'm going to be sad and lonely, then grow old and die alone. That, my friends, will soon be my reality.
I'm going to be alone for the first time in 10 years. The home that once had 4 kids running around will soon be empty, with just me living in it.
I'm going to open up to you guys if you don't mind: I fear loneliness, I fear being alone with nobody to love, touch, and hold tightly in my arms. I fear the single life, as I truly believe I was born to be a family man. I fear dating...that is if I find someone who would want to date an old 44 year old man. I feel I will never meet another woman with whom to share the rest of my life with. I fear spending the rest of my life as a lonely old man siting in a wheelchair facing an open window at an assisted living facility.
As superficial as this may sound, I fear that I will never find a woman as beautiful as my stunning wife. My friends and family used to joke about how a dork like me landed a hot Kate Beckinsale look alike. I was the guy people pointed when I'm with her saying,"He's either rich or has a big rhymes with rock". When in all actuality, she fell in love with me, because I wasn't rich and the size of my penis, let's just say, can't compete with a cucumber.
I'm going to be sad and lonely, then grow old and die alone. That, my friends, will soon be my reality.
Lunch was fine, but as I watched my parents interactions, it hit me... I will not have an 11th year wedding anniversary, let alone a 46th. My mom and dad have been loyal to one another and have been each other's confidant and best friends for 46 years.
Anyway, after lunch I dropped my daughter off at her mom's house (also in the SF Bay Area) and began my 2 hour drive home. That was one of the longest and loneliest drives home. I was reminded in just a few weeks, I will be all alone In an empty house.
moving was a good thing and helped
Now it is a time to start thinking and planning on what your new life might look like
Your pain will lessen in time
and good things will start to fill your life
Hang in there...You are doing great
It's fine that you don't want to explain things yet. Do so when you're ready. Just make sure you're getting the support you need. Those who truly love you won't judge and will want yo be there for you.
The thought of being alone is scary but you will get used to it. At some point you will even feel happy again in spite of it. My husband moved out 14 months ago and today I found myself feeling truly happy and not missing him. That day will come for you as well.
Brought me lunch to school from McDonalds. Which I do love their strawberry sundaes, but that wasn't part of it. Broke my heart all I could say was 25 yrs and all I have to show is 3 beautiful kids.
A quote I found was "You can meet someone tomorrow with better intentions for you than someone you've known forever. Time means nothing, character does."I printed in and put it on my mirror to read and see every morning.
I'm in my 40's & had a student let me know he's over 18 now. I just don't feel I could trust and don't want to deal with it and kids. Just want to focus on me and making sure my kids are good prior to even thinking about bringing someone else.