Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
We are all so damaged when we come here we so want to believe there are still good people in the world! We are trusting, loving and giving and we are desparate to find someone like us! We make friends on here and then sometimes turn it into a one on one either chat or phone relationship. We are so open for some reason to tell our iner most thoughts and feeling to this other person. We let ourselves think it is real! Is it? Is it just real for the moment or is it all abunch of BS just like in the real world. We think we make a real connection and feel special to someone again only to find out they are "special" to many! Be careful not to mistake two hurting people comforting each other for love or a long term relationship or we are going to need a new group for thoses hurt by DS relationships gone bad. Do tell what has happened to you? DOn't have to name names!
When things get messed up, are when friendships turn into more then friendships. I wouldn't have a problem meeting someone from DS if that person lived close enough, but I've had some invitations from Rhoad Island, Texas, New York, and other such places, which they don't seem to understand, its not that I'm scared to meet people from here, far from it, but if I'm going to meet someone from here, its going to be in Warsaw Indiana, not Dallas Texas or providence RI or France or Germany er whatever.
You guys are all like family to me, and I love you all very very much, but I would never form a serious relationship with any of you, only because you guys are too far away. its not internet relationships that don't work, its long distance relationships that don't work. Its hard to tell people that here because I don't like to hurt other peoples feelings, but that is the truth of the matter.
well for instance, I met someone from myyearbook.com the other day at our local hospital for a lunch date. Of course she's engaged to be married so it wasn't a "date date" or anything, but we live in the same town so I didn't see anything wrong with that. We met and now we're the best of buddies.. Also I met my second wife over the computer, granted she cheated on me but we were married 10 years none the less, so I don't see anything wrong with any of this, its just that you guys are forgetting one thing, long distance relationships don't work out.