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Do women actually need this?

Rman
Rman
Emotional intimacy in order to be willing to go through with physical intimacy. That sounds very complicated. Perhaps women are just overthinking the whole thing...
deleted_user
deleted_user
kinda like a drive thru, place your order, get your food and drive away.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good lord, I can't even keep a freaking plant alive, and people think I can maintain a relationship?!

That's why I play with pretty ones. I know I'm not relationship material, so why bother making the effort?
deleted_user
deleted_user
that was in ref to reply #45
deleted_user
deleted_user
Having an emotional connection is an absolute. Personally, if I can't connect with a man on an emotional level, then there is no reason for me to have anything further to do with them. Its that simple.
Rman
Rman
Ok, I'll clarify. Do women actually feel the need to have an emotional connection in order to have sex? I mean does sex always have to be made into some big emotional charade? When I eat dinner, I don't always light candles and listen to classical music...
deleted_user
deleted_user
In that sense, NO.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think ALC has chosen "no" for $1000 Trebek.

"When I eat dinner, I don't always light candles and listen to classical music... "

So what DO you do to get lefty and righty in the mood? LOL.
Rman
Rman
Bicep curls...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I usually tell them I will never leave them, unless there's a horrible accident.
Melin2
Melin2
No Rman, it is not an absolute need, but if it is just a physical release, what is the difference between that and using my vibrator? Both are cold, heartless, don't snuggle and emotionless, physical releases.
Melin2
Melin2
So, according to Rman, what do we need men for? Nope, there are sperm banks for that, don't say it Rman....
deleted_user
deleted_user
If your vibrator doesn't snuggle Melin, you need a new vibrator.
deleted_user
deleted_user
bicep curls?

shame on you TD66, you would leave lefty or righty just cause they may get chopped off?
deleted_user
deleted_user
For me now, sex does not need to be made into some big emotional charade..All I want now is they physical with no strings attached.

But of course I rarely leave this house unless it is for doctors appointments so the sex is not going to happen anytime soon.

Sex with me, myself and I does not count.
deleted_user
deleted_user
They would have left me sweetheart. ; )