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Do women actually need this?

Rman
Rman
Emotional intimacy in order to be willing to go through with physical intimacy. That sounds very complicated. Perhaps women are just overthinking the whole thing...
deleted_user
deleted_user
We all have our things. I won't stick it in the crazy... so there's that whole background check and psychological evaluation thing.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nope.

Be pretty.

Make me laugh.
deleted_user
deleted_user
but i'm superficial and shallow, so that doesn't say much.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yep I need it!!!!

I need to have an emotional physical connection with someone in order to have sex with them.

For one makes it 10x better and two I just can't live with myself any other way...but this is just me and me only..... too each is own.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Superficial and shallow? {---call me---}
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
maybe that's why so many guys have "JOBs"
deleted_user
deleted_user
hmm. good to know, Jaken.
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
basically, whatever you're looking for is elsewhere, and when you want it one way, the other will want it the other way
Rman
Rman
I can have sex with or without emotional intimacy. What is emotional intimacy?
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol Rman, if you don't know what it is, how can you have sex "with or without it?"
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good point Jaken. It is the afterglow.
Rman
Rman
good call out fozzy. i just wanted to hear other peoples point of view, regarding emotional intimacy and sex. for me, emotional intimacy involves some tacos...
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's very emotional for me to be naked in front of someone, so physically intimacy and emotional intimacy are hand and hand for me.
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
Jaken....where shall I ERECT your church? ROTFL

I have never been one to just screw a chick's brains out and think nothing more out of it. I really like having emotions connected with the person because it makes it just that much more rewarding.
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
maybe some day I'll find out. I'm a BAV