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Betrayed

boldeagle27
boldeagle27

I am so mad. 


My wife (who through me out of the apartment a week before Christmas) posted of bunch of very personal information about me taking a loan from my stepmom on Facebook, and even lied about other things.


She is saying that I was emotionally abusive to her when she is the one that would scream and cuss at me and get in my face.


She has notifications on her phone whenever I get an email and thinks she can stick her nose in my business when she already disreguarded me.


She says she'll call me back, then I don't hear from her until she wants to chew me out for something that's none of her business anyways.


It was so hard for me to not set the record straight on Facebook and even tell everyone about how abusive and phychotic she is, but I know it's better to turn the other cheek.


I don't think anyone that actually matters will read the garbage she wrote and actually belive it, it just makes me so mad to be betrayed so thouroughly after being with her for 6 years.

GirlinCalif
GirlinCalif
Are you two going to divorce? You can tell your lawyer about her harassing and defaming you.

Why does she know when you get an e-mail? Change your e-mail address to one that she doesn't have any access or notifications to.

I know it's difficult, but taking actions for yourself will help you to feel better. Talking to a therapist might help you as well. Best wishes.
New_beginning
New_beginning
I’m really sorry to hear about your situation . I believe that people who purposely do others wrong, it doesn’t always workout for them. It’s great to have someone help you out like your stepmom when you needed it. When someone truly loves someone, they shouldn’t try to hurt them the way she’s trying to hurt you. I hope life picks up for you, and your able to move pass all these things.
Mom2girlies
Mom2girlies
I am so sorry to hear that your having this issue, your soon to be ex wife sounds like a narcissist using gaslighting, you should look that up. My ex was the same way, he made me feel like I was crazy every day. Good luck to you
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