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- Things have been going really great lately. It feels like my wife and I get a little closer every day. I asked her to marry me again on Christmas Day to which she said yes. I finally got her a wedding band to match her engagement ring. I'm getting...
- Hello everyone. I'm just checking in for the first time in a little while. I hope everyone is doing well and staying strong and being true to themselves and to those they love. I am certainly doing my best. Today is Halloween and as we dress up...
- It's been almost 2 months since I've been on this site and a month and a half since I went and saw my therapist. Why is it so hard to stick with it? I haven't lied to my wife, but I did hide some anniversary cards we got in the mail because she and...
- Everyone has something they are willing to fight for. Something they want so bad that they'll do anything and everything they can to get it or keep it. That's what you have to find when you've been a liar and a cheat. For me, it's not my wife. I...
- I had another counseling session with my LCSW and we talked about my need for validation. During the course of the conversation, it came up that my wife and I are in constant communication with each other. We text back and forth all day. And I mean...
- Today was not a good day. My wife's emotions bubbled to the surface and so mine soon followed. The physical toll of our conversations is almost as taxing as the emotional and psychological ones. I'm sure my wife would agree. And I'm left, as always,...
- So something happened today during a text exchange between my wife and I. Here's how it goes....I have always sent her the message "Miss me?"...to which she always replies "Always." Well I sent her that message today, for the second time I guess,...
- When racecar drivers get into an accident, they are trained to immediately take their hands off the steering wheel. This is to prevent the sudden jerking of the front tires from possibly breaking their wrists and causing them more injury than is...
- I had my second session with behavioral therapist yesterday. It went well. We talked more about my past, specifically my relationship with the other woman and how it affected my wife. Why I feel the need to lie about things. I made the statement...
- I had my first face-to-face counseling session yesterday with a behavioral therapist for my compulsive lying. It went well; I liked the guy. He seems nice enough. Easy to talk to. I told him my story. And the current situation that my lying has put...
- What does it mean to be truly transparent? My sister, who is also a licensed clinical social worker and grief counsellor had been encouraging me to be not only honest with my wife but transparent. In my past, I would cheat on every woman I was with...
- It's very hard not to think about what I have put my wife through over the last 2 years. All because of my compulsions and my inability to control or care about how my actions would affect her....and us. But maybe that's a good thing. Maybe I don't...
- I have an older sister who is a licensed clinical social worker and after speaking to her for years about my issues and my "symptoms" she is convinced that I am suffering from at least some level of Adult ADD or ADHD. She was also recently diagnosed...
- I have an older sister who a licensed clinical social worker and after speaking to her for years about my issues and my "symptoms" she is convinced that I am suffering from at least some level of Adult ADD or ADHD. She was also recently diagnosed...
- So here I am....I've joined a support group. I'm told groups like this can help me, if only to keep my accountable to more people for my words and actions. I really hope this helps. I've reached a point where I completely dislike myself. I have lied...