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  feeling overwhelmed

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 10/03/2017

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  last night our middle son had 30 stitches in his head. it was veryb traumatic. he was very brave. I called into work today and since Brandon is mad I bought this house he has been kind of mean today. I am running on an hours sleep trying to get carpets washed garbage picked up and windows replaced. I don't have much steam left. I am upset with him for blaming me on the house. we chose it together. I didn't know to not get it because those words never  came out of his mouth. idk im.jusy feeling...

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  New day

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 10/01/2017

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  yesterday my husband thought it would be a good idea to talk to James wife. so I messaged her asking and she turned it around on me and asked what my motive was. she thought it was to take James.  all i wanted to do was help my husband.Brandon thinks I have up loving him. I did not. he thinks this because I don't spend time with him. I would love to but i have too much to do. howevee thongs still get done so i will not be spendong all day getting them done. he is my number one. I guess it's...

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  a new day

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/25/2017

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  my husband is simply an amazing man. he helped me see that by lying I am depriving him of his emotions and that is not something I believe in. I have not lied in a few days. and it feels good. I am working towards a bright future. I can be better because I am worth it and so are we.  we have had many eye opening discussions. some of them really painful but all necessary and good. I must let my true moral compass shine through 

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  my life's a mess

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Last Reply: Pia 09/20/2017

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  I am 30 years old and have a lying problem. i recently had a month long affair for the first time ever in my 9 year marriage.  I regret it with everything I am. especially since what got me there was a lie I told myself. I was convinced that my husband was leaving me because he was disappointed in me. he gave me a few quick one liner reassurances. but at the time I needed a full conversation. he has forgiven me for the affair he understand it. what we can't seem to get passed is the lying.i...

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  abandonment issues

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/19/2017

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  I was adopted at age 7 so I knew what was happening. I know this has caused abandonment issues in which I thought I was over. this has caused me to see things that arent. for instance about a month and a half ago I had an affair because o thought I saw my husband getting ready to leave. and now I see that was a lie I told myself. I don't know why I let things bottle up in me. I have forgiven my birth mom she did the best thing she could have done by me. I just really hate the thought of being...

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/19/2017

  tryinftobebetter commented on the discussion Wake up call.

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  Posted: 09/19/2017

  tryinftobebetter commented on the discussion New here.

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  day 2

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/19/2017

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  yesterday was horrible. we both cried a lot. he told me he is going to consider me not living with him and the kids. honestly I can't stand the thought but I have asked him to do so much for me. he came to me last night saying he lost who he is because of the relationship. that hurt more than I realize.  who he is is amazing I never wanted to take who he is from the world. I want him to be at his best. I also need to get the help I need. today is the day I sign paperwork to move us into our...

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  Journal Comment

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  Posted: 09/19/2017

  tryinftobebetter commented on TeamDS's journal Affirmation for September 13, 2017

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  my marriage

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/17/2017

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  my marriage has always had it's ups and downs. I married at age 21 to an amazing guy. sometimes i forget what we have i mean had. I love him more than life itself. I let another man ruin it. for a month of distraction.i should have been honest from the start.  my husband is the most comforting and easy to approach man ever. except I can't seem to tell him the truth 100% of the time. I hesitate and get too scared. I am not afraid of him.just his reaction. I went through telling my lovers wife...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/17/2017

  tryinftobebetter joined the group Liars Anonymous.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 09/17/2017

  tryinftobebetter commented on the discussion New here.

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  Help me stop lying

  Posted by: tryinftobebetter

  Posted: 09/17/2017

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  I have been a habitual liar my whole life. I am trying to get better. for the sake of my marriage which is almost over I have tries to get help before to no avail I am desperate to fix my issues

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 09/17/2017

  tryinftobebetter joined the group Compulsive Liars.

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 09/17/2017

  tryinftobebetter joined the group Adoption.