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  Posted: 04/21/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion Lost.

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  It's possible

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  Last Reply: bob511 04/22/2017

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  It's possible to change. Some people may tell you that it's not, but it is. Stay focussed on your goals, change for yourself just as much as your partner/friends/colleagues/parents. To everyone in this group, you can do it. Stay strong, evaluate your values and switch them up, put honesty first and always put others before you. 

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  Getting better

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  Last Reply: Boxeur27 04/04/2017

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  I've noticed change in my wellbeing. I'm getting better, I'm happy telling the truth and I've restructured my values in order to live a better life. I guess it's only upwards from here, right? I still miss my gf so much, she left a hole in my heart and I miss having her near. I can only get better for me now though. In time hopefully she will see the change in me, there's always a place in my heart for her.

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  Posted: 04/04/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion I need help.

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  The value of values

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  Last Reply: Tereehart 03/30/2017

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  This week I decided to set my core values. I've always though I'd had an idea about what a set of values is, but really I didn't know much about them. You see, you can have a set of values, but you might not really be aware of what they are or more importantly what order they're in. So I've decided to write my values down, then order them truthfully before reordering them. My ex girlfriend tried to meach me the importance of core values and how they should be aligned in an relationship. I...

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  Trying to be better

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  Last Reply: gwilly 03/24/2017

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  I feel I've been making great advances in becoming a better person. I've been doing a lot for myself recently since my girlfriend left. Journaling, exercising, getting out with friends, bascially trying to be the person I know my girlfriend fell in love with, but doing it for myself. I still have moments of being down, but I stop and think to myself that I'm not lying anymore. I haven't lied in weeks, I haven't felt the need. I've even been in a situation where I could've lied and told the...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 03/18/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion Not getting easier.

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  Posted: 03/18/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion I've got to stick to the plan....

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  Gone but not forgotten

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  Last Reply: mikeyrg 03/18/2017

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  It's been over a week since I posted, but that doesn't mean I've given up on getting better. Yes my girlfriend has now left and I'm certain that she isn't coming back. But now I need to get better just for myself and not worry about how fixing this for her. she has moved into a new place with people she doesn't know, and has already booked a holiday to America. I don't know if she's done these things out of impulse or to get over me faster, but I know now I need to stop dwelling on the past,...

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  Posted: 03/03/2017

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 03/06/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion Still lots to. Learn....

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  Alone

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  Last Reply: gwilly 03/11/2017

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  My girlfriend has decided to leave. As much as it hurts, I think it's the best thing for her and in a way myself. I tried to fight for her, but I think I ventured into begging territory. She gave me the old "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours", but if you've been in this situation you know it's hard to see that outcome. So I'll throw in the towel, I'll stop fighting and I'll let her go. but I won't stop my committment to being a better person. To stop lying and to...

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  Just keep going

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  Last Reply: kevinc00 03/12/2017

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  This is a post where I want to note how I feel. I feel so stupid, so stupid that I've let something that should be so easy effect me in a catastrophic way. It was so easy for my girlfriend to be honest, and she says "It's easy to do". I admire that so much about her, she's so strong and driven and she's five year younger than me. I should be the one setting the way and leading by example, showing her that I can look after her in the future. I know I can do that. I've already started ridding my...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 03/03/2017

  KG1234 commented on the discussion Last chance, please help.