Senior Dating & Sexuality Support Group
This community is intended for senior to discuss senior dating and sexuality, and the specific issues that arise for seniors, such as starting over as a widow or widower.
This community is intended for senior to discuss senior dating and sexuality, and the specific issues that arise for seniors, such as starting over as a widow or widower.
I can't imagine why people tell you that the free sites are the safest. I'm the author of "Carnal Abuse by Deceit" and soon to be released, "Don't Swallow That Catfish Hook." I advocate for victims that have been exploited by e-dating romance scams and the single site from which I've seen the highest volume of scams is Plenty of Fish.
A recent review by the owner of an elite dating site determined that approximately 53% of dating profiles contain lies.
Quick Tips-
Don't give them your personal contact info.
Let them know right up front that you'll want to check their ID. People who balk are telling you identity lies.
If their grammar does not reflect their education level, drop them.
If they want to converse with you at a specific time each day, drop them.
If they start calling you a pet name in short order, drop them.
Check their photo on Google Reverse Photo Search. It'll tell you whether its their's or belongs to someone else. It'll also let you know when it began appearing on the internet. It's obviously not what they look like today if it's been displayed for 4 years!
Use BeenVerified or other background searches.
Don't give them money..... for any reason, not for an ailment, not to travel to see you, not as an investment, etc.
Don't have sex without thoroughly checking the person out.
The most common cons are for sex, assets and immigration.
Be careful!
Good luck
Joyce
The filter mechanism makes more and more scam money digger swarm into these online dating websites, so you have to check them more and more carefully before join in. The most secure way is reading some reviews of the online dating, you just need to search like "xxx dating (sites) reviews" or "top xxx dating sites" to find these reviews site. For example, http://www.senior-dating-sites.com is the trustworthy review site of senior dating segment.
I can tell you that in 10 years of doing it - people are VERY REAL! The fudge, their age, their ams of hair, their height, and weight - both males and females. But they are otherwise FOR REAL and just like you - lonely and looking for companionship.
Men who are looking for sex are fairly open about it and will say in their profile that they are verily or that they like to kiss, etc. Others are ok with friendship or companionship...at least to begin with.
I have met some very decent friends!