lastatthebuffet, ouch!

It is helpful reading all these comments. I did not consider myself a senior but I just suddenly realize I am 66 when my wife and I divorced 2 years ago.

Hi janni, there are many many scammers on dating sites now, I have read a news a few day ago, said that scammer are aiming to older people on some senior dating sites. But try an online dating site is one of the best way to find some partners online. So you can try on but you have to take more care at all times.

Speaking of online senior dating safety, it would be a long story. There is no absolute safe site since those sites don't conduct background investigation of their members. But we don't need to stop online dating because of this. There are still many success stories. You can check a senior dating sites review site like http://onlineseniordatingsites.com/ to choose the site to join. The reviews are based on members' feedback. Hope it helps.

I have used POF but am only corresponding with one fellow, since last October!! Am now on Zoosk have one fellow wanting to meet me, but from the way he writes, etc, I am wary. He does not live very far away, but I just feel anxious about the whole set up. I do no need any more stress in my life!

KK

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Trust your feelings is the best thing I can suggest. If the person comes across as being excessively charming that is a possible red flag. Many such individuals are dishing out just what you are looking for and only until they have all the info they need to abuse you emotionally and/or psychologically. Once things start where time with the person is consisting of "DUH" moments on a regular basis and the person is more consistantly unkind it is time to say ta-ta and run. Things are getting bad and due to get worse.
As for sites and the like, I have not beeen on many sites actively. So I'm not too familiar with how things run. I was on singles' phone dating lines though where the guy pays for membership while the women pay nothing to be a member. This might explain what guys mean when they say their time is running out.
Not everybody on those sites are there for longterm relationships. That is important to remember. Some of them are there looking for a sex object. You must remember that you don't have to put out for any guy sexually if you don't want to. Sex has to be mutually consentual or it is not legally consentual sex.
You mentionned putting your name on a Christian site. Beware: Just because you encounter guys on a Christian site does not mean they are on the up and up. In my days going to a Conservative Christian assembly I became aware that an elder , who by profession was a school teacher, Saw another teacher in his school sexually exploiting/abusing a female student. The elder claimed not to know what to do, because among other reasons ,he did not want to lose the friendship of this other teacher who was sexually exploiting/abusing a female student. So don,t be taken in because he is a pastor or some other "esteemed member of the assembly he attends. take time to get to know him. But no way start off by giving him your email address. That is a big NAY NAY. An exchange of phone numbers is sufficient, with you getting his first. Then after first impressions you can decide if your phone number is safe with him. Also use another name. For example Heather instead of your real name. I'm assumming your name is not Heather. There are a lot of kooks on those sites, even if they target a Christian clientel.

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I joined plenty of fish and all the men that are like 58 and above up to 75, claim they must have sex and are very sensual and if I am not into that, they will not see me. Wow, these guys are nuts. Same men on there all the time. I want a guy who would love to do things with me as a freind, perhaps cuddle and hold my hand. Mostly someone to talk to and maybe more later but these messages are the first ones about sex and can I have sex at my age(67). Wow, hoe impolite and I block them. Now, no one is in this area to come and see me as they claim they do not want to waste gas if they do not get sex.

Some people in your age when loose spouse after many years of marriage go to work for season to resorts to meet people. They take low income jobs because it is not about money. There are many people who do it so they are able to meet people of their age in pleasant environment and enjoy being in resort.

That is the beauty of such employment that you do not have to jump into relations but just can spent time with people. There are cafeteria for employees where everyone mingle and conversations start.

I would suggest looking locally for a web site or group. There are usually singles groups where people meet as a group and go do things like bowling, eating out, movies, etc. Check your newspaper or google your area + singles and see what comes up. You may find a web site for such things.

I have answered personal ads in our local paper in the past and found a couple of men who weren't out for sex. They are out there.

Good luck!