Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
We were really close friends for a year and we saw eachother everyday. I wanted to forgive him for the longest time, I tried to talk to him about it on a couple of occasions. The first time I had to describe to him what he did cuz he claimed he was too drunk to remember it at all. It seemed like he was horrified with himself for what he'd done, but after that conversation, he just treated me like dirt. He would act as though he found me disgusting, and would tell me that i was pathetic and delusional bc i was such a mess over what happened. I'm currently going through the legal process and avoiding him at all costs, but i miss having him as a friend. all our mutual friends have cut me out because i was extremely depressed and they couldn't handle being around me. Only one of them knows what he did and she doesn't talk to me anymore. I know he did a horrific thing to me and im better off with him out of my life but i find myself still wanting to see him and just hang out like we used too.
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Middy is off for a bit so if anyone needs a CL please just give me a shoutSending a big hug...xo
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I was sexually assaulted as a kid. I find it hard to accept that another person's actions caused me so much harm. He made bad choices and now I am paying the price. Stupid PTSD!
even after my mom stepped in and said he was no longer welcome, I felt really strange not talking to him. We joked and talked about a lot of nothing... then no more... he was the only kid in a mile-ish radius where we lived. I was totally alone...
putting up with his abuse was still better than being alone.... or so I thought. Looking back on it now, and having a family now, I see things differently..
I didn’t deserve anything he did to me, and with him out of my life, and his family ( when we were kids) was the smartest thing to do.
If no one will side or still remain your friend, you do not need their garbage in your life. They are siding with garbage, and will continue to pull you down to their level of slop..
Welcome to the supporting and clean side.
You’re not alone with this. Many of us understand the strange feelings we have towards our abusers, and can’t understand why anyone would want to protect those type of folks...
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