I just found out what the *TW* means on here. That's helpful. But I want to warn everyone that I'm terrible at discerning what's okay and what might be considered a trigger for anyone, including myself. I will try my best to tag my posts if I know outright graphic or scary or whatever, but please bear with me if I post something that should be tagged and isn't. Hell, I've traumatized my own kid before simply because it never occured to me that what I was saying could be traumatic. My mom had to step in and take over the conversation at that point, and I'm grateful she was there so I couldn't do any more damage than what was done by the single statement I made. Just wanted to let everyone know that.