luv---I think you've made a wise decision to block her posts. Honestly, I don't see any resolution. It just seems to be esculating :(

There are those of us who know what we know and have a experience that has to be much different from others. It's really not worth it...

Luv has offered me and others much support. My main concern is that she will decide to leave because of all the BS. I don't want her to leave. She has become very valuable to me and one of the few people here on DS that I communicate outside of the message boards. I care about her and she DOES care about OP very much. I've seen it and heard it. She is a strong woman and she's not a pushover and she's not one to back down. I admire her----I admire her because she's not scared to stand up for herself or for what she feels is right. Pink, NP....whoever has the same right---to stand up for herself. I am hopeful that she has changed and she is a new person that has learned and will continue to learn (just like all of us) all of life's lessons. So, before anyone points out that NP has the same rights---I'll do it for everyone.

Two very strong personalities and two very different spectrums. My advice to all, with anyone and everyone on DS or in our real worlds, "proceed with caution", "keep your eyes and ears open" and "Always think before you speak".

lovemarriage, resolutions pair up with problems. The only problem here is that luv hasn't been able to resist a chance to trash my character. This escalated because she continued, and somehow seemed to expect that I would just sit quietly by while she did it. That's sneaking up on being delusional, to think I might not defend myself. I do have a strong personality, and I'm also disinclined to back down. The big difference between luv and I is that I can and do resist chances to engage in fights with her, and I do it all the time without having to put her on ignore. As long as she's stayed out of my way I've stayed out of hers. I was long gone. If my presence here has been so disruptive a smart person might have left well enough alone, instead of stirring the pot again.

BUMP

Pathetic

HI NOSEY, GOTTA, LEBE, PINKORGONZO, etc!

Are all these people really the same people? I thought this was a joke.

Are you implying I am the same person as gotta?

You are way off base. I have also been on DS longer, so have been reading the forums for years.

LEBE-

If you are not GOTTA, my apologies.

Its quite difficult to keep up with her various alter ego's.

I simply assumed it due to the fact that you appeared on this thread to defend GOTTA as you have in the past.

Obviously, you have developed a friendship with this person.

Personally, I do not know her very well and am sure she has wonderful attributes like most people.

The only thing I know is:

GOTTA's history as NOSEY and the people that were offended here.
Nosey claiming she was giving up on this forum but creating a new account quickly as GOTTA.
GOTTA inflaming me and others on this forum.
GOTTA name calling me.

I did not get involved with the previous battles she was involved in.
However, once she directed it at me, I draw the line.
This provocation began on another thread.

I hate to say it, but you are also guilty of all the things you are accusing her of! Sorry, but as I said I have been reading your responses since you first came to DS. You have strong opinions also, and sometimes word them in a way I find offensive. I still don't personally see myself as having a problem with you merely because we have differing viewpoints.

I have an idea. How about you both not comment on each others situations and lay off all the judging...

Lebe-

"You have strong opinions also, and sometimes word them in a way I find offensive"

I'm sure that you have. I would hope that you have noticed the constructive, non-offensive things as well. You will note that I am a member of CA. If my goal was to bash a person that cheats, I would have tried to do it there.

"I have an idea. How about you both not comment on each others situations and lay off all the judging"

I agree with you completely.