Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My SO cheated on me many times both with in person and online affairs. It was many years ago but it took forever to get trust back. We have had an agreement that he will limit his online activity ever since. I just found out today he has been going on YouTube and subscribing to a stream and wasting his money on super chats. I also found out he has been specifically focused on chatting it up with the women who pop in. He says he is doing nothing wrong and haven't we all heard that before?
He has been doing this in the middle of the night while I'm sleeping. It brought that sick feeling back and all the anger and humiliation. We share a house together so I can't and don't want to just walk out. It makes me realize the old person in him is still there waiting for that moment when he can be who he used to be. Thank you for letting me vent.
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
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He is choosing this behavior. You did nothing wrong at all. Even after you talked to him about it, he continues to choose this behavior over you, and over your relationship. That's so sad. But it is the reality.
Is the house purchased or rented, and is it in both of your names? You definitely need to move out or have him move out. He is disrespecting you and that is not okay. He could be bringing home STDs or HIV or get another woman pregnant.
I'm sorry you are going through this. But he won't change. Cheaters lie, and they lie about lots of things. They tell you what they think you want to hear so he can keep you as his side piece, while he goes out and cheats with other women. You need to move out, so that you can move on with your life and move on to a person who cares about you. You can do this. You will feel so much better once you move out and on with your life.
People do not change unless they want to, most just get comfortable with life and live acting out in pain or hurt and get worse in their on lives never growing or loving themselves.
Know that his actions have nothing to do with you. That they are not about you or anything you have done. You can not ever change him. Attempting to ever do so will only cause you more pain and hurt.
You must love yourself for the child of God that you are, he created you in his image and loved you before you were ever thought about.
Focus on the love you have and how much you can give yourself. Respect yourself and treat yourself as you treat others. Many times we forget to love ourselves, reward ourselves, and care for ourselves.
Its ok to hurt, to be in pain, to acknowledge yourself and your values.
Take time out to heal from this, and grow in your own loving way, and be the best version of yourself that you can be.
I pray that you are safe and healthy.
Right now is a bad time to try and leave with absolutely nowhere else to go. But he does have somewhere else to go and I'm encouraging him to do that or make immediate changes as he said he would. We are living like roommates right now because that is what it feels like without trust.