Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So I was upset today because my husband transferred money out of our joint account into his without asking. We have an agreement that when it is our joint money, we would always respect eachother and ask. It was only $30 but I know it was for him to spend on the OW. So I got upset, and texted him "Why don't you stay there tonight? Thanks for respecting me enough to ask to transfer money to spend on your whore. Please just stop hurting me and leave me alone"
Well he texted me back "Sorry for that honey, I would have told you but I had to transfer for gas today, I will stay here tonight and please don't be mean and name call it's not fair, I love you and miss you good night and sweet dreams" I wrote back " I love you but you love her more, I can't do this anymore. I am sorry, but someone who sleeps with a married man is a whore"
His response; Stop it, I love you don't be like that"
Me: Its the truth, I am not enough, I am not argueing
him: I will talk to you tomorrow sweetie, please sleep well
me: we can through mediation or arbitration , its amicable
him: Are you kidding me, that is rediculous
me we can talk tomorrow
him alright baby, I love you and I miss you good night
So why is it wrong of me to call a whore a whore? I mean she is sleeping with my husband, and what kills me is she thinks they are in a relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend, and so does he. When will they wake up and realize, that you can't be in a relationship with a married man, thats being a mistress.. and its called having an affair.
He doesn't like me mentioning divorcing.. but really, what does he expect?
Anyway.. just venting... and wondering if you guys really think I am wrong for calling her a whore...
I mean hello pot, meet kettle??
right???
Well he texted me back "Sorry for that honey, I would have told you but I had to transfer for gas today, I will stay here tonight and please don't be mean and name call it's not fair, I love you and miss you good night and sweet dreams" I wrote back " I love you but you love her more, I can't do this anymore. I am sorry, but someone who sleeps with a married man is a whore"
His response; Stop it, I love you don't be like that"
Me: Its the truth, I am not enough, I am not argueing
him: I will talk to you tomorrow sweetie, please sleep well
me: we can through mediation or arbitration , its amicable
him: Are you kidding me, that is rediculous
me we can talk tomorrow
him alright baby, I love you and I miss you good night
So why is it wrong of me to call a whore a whore? I mean she is sleeping with my husband, and what kills me is she thinks they are in a relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend, and so does he. When will they wake up and realize, that you can't be in a relationship with a married man, thats being a mistress.. and its called having an affair.
He doesn't like me mentioning divorcing.. but really, what does he expect?
Anyway.. just venting... and wondering if you guys really think I am wrong for calling her a whore...
I mean hello pot, meet kettle??
right???
I'm sure you can call her more than one, based on your mood.
a little stupid... but it made me smile.. and i didn't call her a whore..
I guess it has to do with individual suffering and how you react to it.
My eyes were so opened up to married seeking married after my CS. I never realized how much of it existed.
If you can financially sustain yourself.....leave him with other woman.
Change is so hard I know am scared to death myself but once you get a glimmer of self worth and confidence back, things get easier.
You sound so much like me. I am reading a book " Women who love to much"
I am new here and don't know all of your situation so forgive me if I have crossed any line... But if she new he was married or even does now....She is what she is...
Whore
a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
Let's see am I promiscuous? I've only ever had sex with 1 man, my ex husband, so I'd say no. And no I have never had sex with Mr Married, we've just had an online relationship.
Do I have sex for money? Nope never have unless you want to count me being a stay at home mom for 13 years and my husband paying the bills.
And in your case unless this woman is a prostitute or is having sex for money or gifts, she's not really a whore.
Really though, I'm nice. Bash me all you want. I know I'm a good person, no wait, I'm a great person. I just happened to have too much love for one man.