Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So I was upset today because my husband transferred money out of our joint account into his without asking. We have an agreement that when it is our joint money, we would always respect eachother and ask. It was only $30 but I know it was for him to spend on the OW. So I got upset, and texted him "Why don't you stay there tonight? Thanks for respecting me enough to ask to transfer money to spend on your whore. Please just stop hurting me and leave me alone"
Well he texted me back "Sorry for that honey, I would have told you but I had to transfer for gas today, I will stay here tonight and please don't be mean and name call it's not fair, I love you and miss you good night and sweet dreams" I wrote back " I love you but you love her more, I can't do this anymore. I am sorry, but someone who sleeps with a married man is a whore"
His response; Stop it, I love you don't be like that"
Me: Its the truth, I am not enough, I am not argueing
him: I will talk to you tomorrow sweetie, please sleep well
me: we can through mediation or arbitration , its amicable
him: Are you kidding me, that is rediculous
me we can talk tomorrow
him alright baby, I love you and I miss you good night
So why is it wrong of me to call a whore a whore? I mean she is sleeping with my husband, and what kills me is she thinks they are in a relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend, and so does he. When will they wake up and realize, that you can't be in a relationship with a married man, thats being a mistress.. and its called having an affair.
He doesn't like me mentioning divorcing.. but really, what does he expect?
Anyway.. just venting... and wondering if you guys really think I am wrong for calling her a whore...
I mean hello pot, meet kettle??
right???
Well he texted me back "Sorry for that honey, I would have told you but I had to transfer for gas today, I will stay here tonight and please don't be mean and name call it's not fair, I love you and miss you good night and sweet dreams" I wrote back " I love you but you love her more, I can't do this anymore. I am sorry, but someone who sleeps with a married man is a whore"
His response; Stop it, I love you don't be like that"
Me: Its the truth, I am not enough, I am not argueing
him: I will talk to you tomorrow sweetie, please sleep well
me: we can through mediation or arbitration , its amicable
him: Are you kidding me, that is rediculous
me we can talk tomorrow
him alright baby, I love you and I miss you good night
So why is it wrong of me to call a whore a whore? I mean she is sleeping with my husband, and what kills me is she thinks they are in a relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend, and so does he. When will they wake up and realize, that you can't be in a relationship with a married man, thats being a mistress.. and its called having an affair.
He doesn't like me mentioning divorcing.. but really, what does he expect?
Anyway.. just venting... and wondering if you guys really think I am wrong for calling her a whore...
I mean hello pot, meet kettle??
right???
I calls 'em as I see 'em.
...and, just my opinion, I would be filing sooooon. This whole situation is ridiculous. He's gotta be on crack if he expects you to live like this. And to be saying, 'I love you?' Is he outta his mind?
He doesn't like to talk about divorce? It gets him upstet? So what? All of his screwing around has gotten YOU upset.
File. Really. File.
Texting you from the OW's house, while he is sleeping there, that he loves you is SO NOT.
If it were me? He would come home to all his stuff on the curb in Super Walmart bags and the locks changed...or me gone. Just sayin'.
Take care, L~
I call him a manwhore.. but same concept.
Yes, for sure moving forward with a life without him.
Enjoy our day guys!
Call his whore anything you damn well please.
She is a home wrecking whore and your husband is just trying to have his cake and eat it too.
I would lawyer up and then kick him in the nuts financially.
Mick xx
By the way, a whore is a woman who exchanges sex for something of value, usually money, without an emotional attachment,
Some people have these side things. It isn't what I would want, but HE is the one spending the night, taking your cash, leaving his family.
She is just an available lay that HE has chosen over his own.
Don't know why she is with him, probably desperate. I know something about that personally.
But how HE can risk a family and marriage........ he is truly the Manwhore you call him.
God I hope you file and that if you file, you MEAN it.
I wish you peace.
I call OW and my stbx all kinds of names when referring to them. But most pertain to their ugly insides, and not their looks. Does being skinnier than me make her better than me? No. What makes me better than her, regardless of looks (she is skinnier but not prettier) is that I am not a homewrecker.
It's easy to go low and call names based on looks, but it is the ugly on the inside of cheaters that deserves the insults.
I agree wholeheartedly that you should NOT be okay with him texting "I love you" from her house. That is ridiculous. I know people may say make him choose, but honestly, do you want someone that would do that?