Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I swear my husband of 20 years (last week was our anniversary) is trying to kill me by how he's handling his year plus affair with a woman who signed up online to date a married man. I have health issues that are affected by stress and have lost over 20 pounds since I found out months ago. He's not doing any of the standard things a husband should do to make it up to his wife. I realize that that is a MAJOR red flag that he doesn't want to fix it....I'm just not emotionally ready to deal with that fact. We've been together for 25 years total, over half my life and I don't know how to move forward without him. I know I can get there; but I keep holding out hope that we can work this out. It's a very dominant/co-depandent relationship--most would never know that because I am a very successful woman who owns my own business. I just haven't figured out how to find my own power and put myself in charge of my future. He has never put me first and never will...how do I let go?
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
Have you ever put your foot down about him ending it?
Work on yourself. Live the life you want. Stop the ill treatment of him towards you.
Strong smart men love a successful woman.
Dont live in a life you dont want.
Dont let yourself suffer.
You have a big investment in this man. It hurts. But you do have to deal
with the fact that he has ended the marriage. He would rather screw a whore and lose you.
His choices do not devalue you. You are still the wonderful person you always were. And you are better off without him.
I think Memphis has a good idea - treat your life like your business. Make sound business decisions. And move on to a better life.
Rejection always hurts. That pain will subside though. And you will see you have lost nothing by divorcing him, and have a gained so much!