In a world of express mail and drive thru meals, it can only be expected that people want love and want it now.

Who doesn't want love? As synical as you may get at the comment that it will find you - don't shrug that off.

The fact is life is about timing. The right one could be getting his/her life together right now so that when you meet them in the future they will fit your true self and thus be "the one" for you.

You never know, I think there's more than just one "the one" for all of us. While you're on your own, it's best to prepare yourself, work on yourself, discover yourself, grow, learn, become the you that you're okay with at the end of the day when you're all alone and the next time you find yourself in a relationship, chances are it will be successful.

here here lets hear it for the lovely lady from Texas Steph you rock girl

Steph, you speak the wisest of words.

With the passing of time though, I find my standards are slowly slipping. 2 yrs ago I was holding out for Mr Right, now having encountered a few more Mr Not Right's, I find myself thinking that I could settle for a Mr Right Now..... Not good.

kate..not good at all

NO SETTLING
NO SETTLING
EVER

as steph wisely alluded to, you have to be comfortable with yourself and being alone.

Settling is just going to make you unhappy in the long run and nobody wants that!

Oh did I mention..no settling!

I am comfortable tho Matty..... Just bored!!

true..I didn't mean to imply you weren't..I was just rambling. I dont' want you to snog a wanker bloke just for the sake of snogging..(did that make any sense)

but I understand what you mean. Completely and totally..unfortunately.

Understood...

FWB

Need I say more?

are we full circling our day on HS

I think Kate has some emotional tie issues as well if I recall from the previous thread.

Bored, but don't want to settle? Need sex, but can't find "the one?"

Friends with benefits! Oh, yes! Lots 'o benefits!

*growl* *hiss*

sure.

Nothing like full circling...

Throw out some sex karma and see where you end up...

who does that refer to as I look around for my sex karma?

RAWR!!

sex karma can only be good.

LOL, I've tried that one too Steph.... but either he got involved (cried for 45 mins when I dumped him) or I got involved (still can't talk to him without wanting to go down on my knees and beg him to shag me) so I can't do FWB.....

Balls. Look like the celibacy continues. Oh well, better buy some more batteries....

give 3/3 a chance, kate..you never know.

Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz