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Where is he?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok, so....

I'm a dirty bitch with a seriously high sex drive. I have my own house, car, job, friends, life. I'm not a playboy bunny but I can look presentable sometimes. I consider myself to be fun and witty, yet caring and kind. I'm not clingy or needy....

So why the fuck can't I find a decent man?!

Discuss.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
*sniffs Cari*

Kate, you're a beauty AND funny AND self-sufficient. That can be intimidating. My hubs told me that he was always worried when we first got together as he didn't think I NEEDED him. The right one will see that independent streak and be totally turned on by it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No please dont cry in the corner....would love to hear you growwwwwwlllllllll
maddiesdad
maddiesdad
Maybe they're just slow over there because you are a great girl and you would have no problem on this side of the pond.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Now wait a minute...I know plenty of slow men here in the states...what are you talking about Maddiesdad? LOL
tossedaside
tossedaside
maddies got it right Id let Kate so take care of me lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with kelandkid...plenty slow on this side of the pond!
maddiesdad
maddiesdad
well, you are both in Missouri so maybe that's it..but great girls are tough to come by for us single guys too..but I guess that's a whole different discussion!!
tossedaside
tossedaside
go on Maddie I got your back, slowly slipping out the door
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thats it, I'm emigrating!!
tossedaside
tossedaside
thats wanderful, tea is at 5
deleted_user
deleted_user
why dont you start that discussion matty!!!!
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
WE DO HAVE THE BEST MAN CHICKEN OVER HERE...

SORRY, I COULDN'T RESIST.
I KNOW YOU HATE THAT 'BLOODHOUND GANG' EXPRESSION.
maddiesdad
maddiesdad
I'm not the discussion starter type, K7!!

Emigrating? Sweet..beers at 5, tossed..not tea!
tossedaside
tossedaside
Just thought tea might be more appealing to Kate, what the hell to the pub we go the ale is on me lads and lassy's Mattie can you spot me a cple fins
deleted_user
deleted_user
this discussion does not bode well for me.

I prefer to think that I will, indeed find that man who can at once appreciate all of my amazing qualities and want to take care of me too. And, like I told Steph, I'm well aware that it will happen when I least expect it. (fucking nonsense platitude). I must be that the slowness of some midwest men is simply the culture out here. Otherwise, there's no good reason for the distinct lack of a decent man in my life. Totally must be the reason.

*stalks Staci*