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Where is he?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok, so....

I'm a dirty bitch with a seriously high sex drive. I have my own house, car, job, friends, life. I'm not a playboy bunny but I can look presentable sometimes. I consider myself to be fun and witty, yet caring and kind. I'm not clingy or needy....

So why the fuck can't I find a decent man?!

Discuss.....
bigguy3
bigguy3
And my ex-wife was one of those women ... and I agree with you whole heartedly :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sad because I've no model of a healthy relationship between two people. Everyone in my family has been divorced. Or better yet, the two couples that have remained married are full of resentment toward one another.

Who am I kidding? I haven't a clue what it takes. On paper I know what I want, yes. But hell, will I know a "decent" one when they come along? *sigh*
Goof
Goof
you are NOT a dirty biotch !!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Erm, I kind of am.

Not in a weird fetish way....
Just in a 24/7 type of way!!
Goof
Goof
Kate...I dont believe you
deleted_user
deleted_user
the right man is out there you just have to give it time and play with all the wrong ones before you find the right one.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The grass is always greener on the other side. Wish I could trade places with you...would love to be single again.
maddiesdad
maddiesdad
*rawr* kate..nice!

ugh on the standard it takes time reference
jimmysquirrel
jimmysquirrel
you know, i have not read the rest ofyour replies... but from my experience in the Navy... most Aussie men are downright abusive to the women there in the Land Down Under. And i have seen some of it too... i mean... really bad, and i can't really blame the men for acting the way they do because it is something that is in the culture... but it does leave slim pickens for the women that won't settle for anything less than a good guy... and no, i am not telling you to settle, but just be patient.
koolman
koolman
Kate, I'm responding to your response to my "sweetness and lust" post. I'm not angry, but I love how you put this: "I'm a dirty bitch...so why the fuck can't I find a decent man?" How do you define "decent man"? Don't you mean you want a dirty man who can keep up with your high sex drive?
kidsintowe03
kidsintowe03
well, don't men want the 'nasty dirty bitch' in bed??? isn't that why so many of them say they stray or think about straying??? their SO's don't want to try this or that? Or they come into a time in their life where they are emotionally or physically unable to have sex?

As I had just a bit of experience with some things....regardless of my weight...i have found at least this to be true...when you get alone in the bed, there seems to be something (if not a few somethings) lacking outside of it..that never works...