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So that's what sex feels like...

shanbanan
shanbanan
Yup....I've been separated from my H for a little over 3 weeks, and each day he just reiterates that I made the right choice. Yes, I've been emotionally checked out of the marriage years before I finally decided enough was enough...always thought I wasn't worth it, that I deserved a shitty relationship. Well I do deserve better and I've been having a lot of fun and sex ;)
Wow I've experienced intimacy again. Kissing, touching, showering with someone, finally receiving oral sex ;), giving head, fucking for hours. I've always been a very sexual person and was deprived and never strayed. Maybe even now I shouldn't be having casual sex since I'm not divorced but I don't feel I'm doing anything wrong.
I've had amazing sex and I'm feeling great! Maybe I went about it the wrong way but I don't regret it. Sex is amazing!
billwfriend
billwfriend
that seems ok to me as hubby and you are done deal....divorce is the legal portion of the end....the end is already arrived but that allows for some sex on side without guilt on the applie pie....
leather2lace
leather2lace
Good for you Shanbanan, be careful and enjoy the ride!
koolman
koolman
And how did you meet your new lover/stud-muffin? Long-time acquaintence who liked you for long time, knew of your marital difficulties, was waiting for his chance to pounce, or just met at the checkout line of the supermarket, dude could sniff that you're freshly-divorced, sex-deprived and horny? Inquiring minds want to know how this stuff works.

Use rubbers every time!!!
LivingWater
LivingWater
Good for you! I'm happy for you!

As for not being legally divorced yet, but enjoying sex as just a separated woman, I like this saying --

"A marriage begins when two people start to care about each other. It ends when they stop caring about each other. All the rest is paperwork."
shanbanan
shanbanan
I like that livingwater!!
Koolman I met him on Craigslist for casual sex. Yup I went there.
I don't regret it, I'm having a great time and being safe for sure!
Bubbabiker
Bubbabiker
Congrats and be safe!

Life is too short to be sad......
Lola694
Lola694
Go ahead om with your bad self. You are my idol : )
jokiwhau
jokiwhau
I too had started seeing some guys after my divorce, and the sex was amazing! I had forgotten how much fun sex could be. :-)
koolman
koolman
Makes me think there's something raw and powerful in the broken heart! Stripped of the heart's higher, more caring, more dutiful, more obligated, more responsible functions, its baser, more primal animal survival instincts emerge!
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