Yes, I heard that quote, too! Actually it's not always grilled cheese. I once had a lover who after sex demanded steak with cherry peppers!

Mmmm...protein and hot pepper for digestion...everything a growing boy needs...mmmmm...

I'm glad women have those lists also. For me sex without being allowed to give her foreplay totally sucks. Or she gets what she wants and is perfectly ready to carry on with HER life. And sex has to be fun and a loving experience for both partners. If I had to make a choice to have sex on a major highway or a residential street, I'd choose the highway because all highways are two way traffic arteries But there are a lot of one way streets. So if sex is not a two way experience with both persons wanting to make the other happy than one is going to end up being the surprised sex object.
It has been such a long time since I had a grilled cheese sandwhich, by the way.

I think all men want is love and affection. What each man needs to feel that way is alot more complicated, but food and sex usually go a long way lol

Deb, you nailed it!

Big screen tv with sports, hooters girls serving an all you can eat buffet, and his buddies! I thought the ladies came after the game?

I think that what all men want varies from men to men.

I think that the only way to know is to ask them.

Just saying...

I also don't think that it is all about sex with a lot of men.

A lot of men actually like to be with a woman and talk to us and respect us and like our company. Can you believe that? LOL

^^^ This. Well said Daisy!

I hope Daisy is right! That would be refreshing.

Daisy you are so right!
With me I would rather have a companion and enjoy each of our bodies (touch and feel) more than sex sometimes. Knowing that they are there with me and just a light touch or kiss is so exciting that it's more powerful than the sex its self (don't get me wrong, sex is wonderful, but there is so much more to a relationship than 'just sex)
I also enjoy making sure she enjoys things too, that I'm willing to do for her, and not want anything in return!

Wouldn't trade it for nothing!! Been married for 10 yrs, together for 13!!

"food and sex usually go a long way"

Amen to that, deb! The stomach and the penis: The best ways to a man's heart.

"I think all men want is love and affection. What each man needs to feel that way is alot more complicated"

True that too, deb! This man's heart can be very sweet and also a little "thorny". I want love, ON MY TERMS, like Citizen Kane. Maybe we all do. There's this certain part of me that likes power, likes to initiate, likes to call the shots sometimes. When a woman completely overpowers me, I feel emasculated, but when a woman expects me to take over all the time, it's tiring. It's indeed complicated...

Sex and food ..Yummy ! Whatever could be wrong with that ?

Thank you both. :)

I think that a lot of men put too much emphasis on the "sex" part and it actually pushes women away. Take the time to get to know a person and find out what they are like and what they are about.

If something is meant to happen then it will happen. If not then that is okay too.

Think with the head above the shoulders that is located in the brain. Not the one that is located below the waist. Believe it or not laughing and talking and taking the time to get to know the person is a huge turn on and it will go much further in the the long run than having sex. Sex is over rated anyways...LOL LOL