The "honeymoon phase" (sex sex sex) is over and now there's nowhere for the relationship to go. Sex, physical intimacy, is important, sure, but there's got to be things other than sex to talk about, interests outside of the intimate relationship, that you're both passionate about, interested in. What did you guys TALK about when you weren't humping? Maybe for him it's a problem with mental and soul stimulation. I'm sure you're a very smart girl! What are you interested in besides this man?

@koolman We used to ride 4 wheelers, go out on the boat and fish, have fires, plant our garden, have friends over and play games. Now he's into playing Play Station. He has honestly gotten lazy and has gained approx 15 lbs. (which is no big deal: I say he' s content).
I honestly gave up everything I use to when I met him. . all my time and energy goes into this relationship. My interests used to be (don't laugh) going to Goodwill so I could resell on ebay to make money. I also rode 4 wheelers and shopped with the family.

Another red flag - you put all your energy into the relationship; he doesn't seem to put any effort into the relationship. One-sided relationships are always problematic and are rarely successful.

But I understand your position. You put all your eggs in this basket and are attempting to salvage them. I'm afraid the eggs are going to get broken before long...

Tonight I came home from work and under the tree were Christmas presents he wrapped for me. I was really surprised. Once again I have mixed emotions on to what he wants. I know there are several signs @Cora_Belle that you say the relationship is over but why is he giving me gifts? Just trying to understand. thanks

Just the phrase, “kick you out” is not how you talk to someone. He’s a piece of shit. Sorry. He’s showing you exactly who he is and you need to believe him.

I think you should move out . If there is anything to salvage, you can start over again and just date. Don’t love together.
I m sorry it is so disappointing

If a man chooses porn over you. You should leave but before you do all of that you need to talk to him and see where his head is at. Porn makes men lose real intimacy with real women. & intimacy is ALWAYS going to be a problem once porn is in his life. Porn warps the idea of real love and intimacy and thats why he chooses to go behind your back late at night rather than to be with you. Its not your fault at all. Porn is a result of a mans weakness or insecurities or an outlet for something that has happened in his life. He's just weak & he could be addicted. If he wants to open up to you and get him and you're willing to that would be such a beautiful and challenging experience. I know that because I'm going through it now :/ if he wants your help thats great but sometimes it could be really hard for men to open up.

never ever stay in a relationship when a man chooses porn over you :/