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I need some advice

mitzi56
mitzi56

So I asked my boyfriend of almost 3 years if he could take my sister, my cousin, and I to the nail salon. He said no. I asked why and he said because he's already doing two errands for me tomorrow. Well apparently he thinks my orthodontist appointment and my counseling appointment are errands. Now he rarely says no. But when he does, he is just so mean about it. And I get mad and hurt. He has always seemed like he has had a problem with taking me to my appointments. But he tells me he doesn't. I can't take myself because I don't have my driver's license or a car.

rmb
rmb
Ah well now it makes more sense. I can see now why it would bother you that he seemed annoyed with taking you. Why does he get to do nothing? I worked during college, as a full time student. Why allow him to freeload?
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
No one is assuming anything mitzi...... It 'sounds' like you're getting angry that people are giving what they think you are asking
You named this post "I need some advise"..... No one here is trying to hurt you..... We're trying to help.... I absolutely wouldn't support a man who sits around all day..... and your Grandmother shouldn't be either
I think if you are able to get a licence it would be a huge gift to you..... People should be helping one another out..... That's what makes life work IMHO..... Big hug...... xo
geoyur77
geoyur77
Get a bicycle
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