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china70
china70

I'm feeling down,, and got alot on my mind right now.  I got grief going on, on top my depression and anxiety and now I got to worry about somewhere to live since I can't afford living here since my mom passed.  So many bad things have happened since my mom passed.  One thing after another it seems.  Yesterday our fence fell from a storm that hit, had to call someone to prop it up.  Thank goodness he did, because I had no one else to help me.  I told my brother who lives out of town and he said it's not my problem ,talk about a hole.  I wasn't asking him to fix it.  I guess that's family, sometimes friends are there for you more than your own family sadly.  A friend of mine offered her car for me to use when mine broke down, none of my family offered to help.  I feel alone now with my mom passing away, because my siblings aren't supportive sometimes and could careless. Praying for better days ,because this summer has not been good at all.  

peterthegreat
peterthegreat
Youtube have many videos of prayers. Prayer for impossible situations. To pray efficiently, one needs to learn about it. Youtube also have healing videos for anxiety and depression. I have try their videos. It really works. I also have anxiety depression. Feels unstable and bored often.
Look up manifestion on youtube. Manifestion means to attact things that you want. There are a lot of ways to attact things that you want. Even impoissble things
Also look up spells. There are all kinds of spells. There are money spells. You will get some money .You can cast it yourself or you can pay someone to cast it for you.
mlr0853
mlr0853
I don't know how old you are, but if you were living with your mom and she left her estate to you because you cared for her and other sibs were no where to be found then that is on them, not you. If I were you I'd check with the lawyer who is dealing with her estate, are you legal person for probate? Also, go to your town hall, they may have someone there who can help you, in my town we have a social worker at the town hall. Or, dial 211 and explain your situation, that is a phone number for all social services. If you are over 55 go to your senior center in town, they will have someone there w ho can help too, That's all I can think of atm, or you can go to chatgpt.com and explain your situation, where you live, don't have to give your name, where can you get help. My Heart goes out to you, the loss of your Mom is huge! Mine passed in 1994 and there are not many days where I don't think of her and miss her...she is with you in your heart <3 Please keep us update to give you support <3
Peace Strength and Healing to You and those you love <3
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Big hug China
Could you rent a bedroom in your home to help you to afford rent?

I'm sorry that you're hurting
Grief is very painful...xo
GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
Good morning and I am so sorry about your situation. Can you take in a roommate? I'm sorry that you lost your Mom and your siblings are not being supportive. Like Miro said, there are resources out there for you. I use 211 in NJ and it's a huge help. I get help with electric and gas. Please continue to keep us posted.
china70
china70
I don't think I could live with a roommate, but may have too. I think my sister is going to sell the house anyways, so that probably won't be an option for. me. The grief of losing my mom really has affected my depression and anxiety,It's weird how it has affected my appetite. I've lost weight because of it, not to mention the stress. Ugh idk why all these bad things have happened to me..
peterthegreat
peterthegreat
Your mom's body had die, but her soul went to another world. Haven. There are people who can talk to the dead. You can hire them to talk to your mom. but it is expansive. A famous psyhic called John edward Peolp hire him to talk to dead family members.
If you need money, you can raise money. There are a lot ways to raise money. There are companies help people to raise money.
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
Sorry for your loss it hard to grieve and then still dealing with life circumstances. Not sure where you live but maybe seeking resources that can help make process easier. I recall when my mom passed feeling numb and like the world is still going and I all these things needed done but internally I was so depressed and grief stricken. Sending thoughts and prayers for the challenging times.
china70
china70
Thank you, Serenityspeaks yes that's exactly how I feel, the way you explained it. It's so hard losing a mother.
honeypeas
honeypeas
So sorry china. I know it can get very overwhelming when a loved one dies. Especially one who've you shared a home and are now left on your own. There are agencies out there that may be able to help you., churches or charities to help with repairs and utilities A good place to start is a local grief support group. I don't know how old you are or how long ago your mother passed. But I do know is that once you get past the grief, you should consider the possibilities of a new start. Selling the house for something more manageable for you. I know how scary it can be. I also know that sometimes you can depend on friends more than family. Prayers to help you get through this and keep us posted on how your doing
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