I would just drop it. He is trying to guilt you into getting back with him. Really? Take it as a learning situation and just move it. Not answering him will drive him more nuts than anything you could respond back to him with. For your sanity, please just leave it.

just move on* lol

Well I did respond, and I said "If you weren't so controlling or needy you could be with me, but you drove me away"

Okay so let me ask you a question. Do you want to be with this guy or no?

No, I don't.

Yeah, so if it was me, I would just leave it. He is trying to get a reaction out of you and if you don't want to be with him then no sense in putting anymore of your energy into it.

kspizzle is right, he is doing this for a reaction, any reaction. He wants you to get angry with him because then he gets the attention he is seeking. The best thing you can do is completely ignore him. Nothing will bother him more than that.

He called me at lunch and I wish I had not answered the phone, he thinks we should still occasionally see each other just not be so serious. I am such a stupid sucker, I need to just tell him know.

i Mean No

He is so damn arrogant!!!!!!

Why did you answer?

OTM it appears that you are not sure in your own mind what you really want. He sounds like trouble to me. Please stop.

I think you do know what you want but I notice you really don't know how to do no contact. Is it because you feel it's rude to not respond, or that you have to some how try to explain yourself. The thing is, that NEVER works. When you tell someone you're not interested or don't want to be in the relationship, they assume you don't mean it if you respond to them or reach out to them. You gotta just accept, he's a freak show, not functional, at all. And so knowing that, stay the hell away. Otherwise, you're putting your own self through this now and keeping the drama alive.

@ksprizzle, I answered because I was actually curious to see what he had to say. And it sounds to me like he has 2 free nights a week that he wants to go riding by himself but still see me say on Saturday.......But that will be with his child who is just turning 2. I asked him when would he have time to actually DATE me.

His response was the other 5 days are free, and that he thought I didn't mind if his child was there, I said only sometimes, then he said "You are welcome to come over and get in bed with me tonight" I didn't even respond I am just like Wow.