For me, the whole bar/club scene kinda stresses me out at the moment...if I'm gonna frequent one of the "ladies", exotic massage is more along the lines of my thinking at the moment lol.

But I'm pursuing the possibility of a girlfriend first. Talking with the ladies I find interesting at the gym...maybe ask someone if she'd like to hang out at the beach sometime...get her phone #...the gym is a great place to show off your physical prowess lol.

An exotic dancer has low self-respect, probably low self-esteem, and honestly (of all the ladies I've met who have done/do that kind of stuff) are prone to promiscuity as well. They may be nice, but I promise you, she will probably screw any guy willing to pay a price (she gets naked for money already, just think about it) and depending on how bad her lifestyle has affected her mentality, she may just do it cuz she feels like it.

your a afraid of a challenge. you have not lived until you make it with a dancer.

my dancer friend is remarkably together for a single mom of two whose husband dumped her for a younger woman. i don't think less of her for her career choice. she makes a lot of money.

whats wrong with liking sex? nothing...

so my saga continues, i met my dancer friend at a restaurant away from the club. she had been rejecting my invitiations for quite a while and finally it happened. we met, we ate, we talked just like a normal date. she said she was nervous, so was i. i saw her as a regular person, which is what she is. then we went to the club and sat and talked some more. then as has been our routine wwe went for a spin in the vip room. she was soaking wet in her vag area when i got my hands in there, so what does that mean? does she want me? can they fake that? it was one of the most intense foreplay sessions we have had. i flat out asked her when would she allow me to make love to her? so i put it out there.
after i came out and finished my beer, she had to take care of another customers and that was when i mentally unraveled a little. i did not make a scene but i'm sure my expression told volumes. my jealousy came up and i left the club pissed off at myself for having these feelings for her. today i'm ok with it. i just don't like to be there when it starts to get busy and i see her w other men. even if they are 300lb. slobs. yeah, im falling in love with her. i know, i know this is crazy. i'm a strip club veteran, this isn't supposed to happen to guys like me. we will see what happens next time.

It's not the stripper part that worries me, it's the age difference! Don't mean to bust your bubble but sounds like she's after your pension and not your penis. Don't be stupid she's a gold digger! Give it some time and you shall see.

i'm 51 and she is 41. no real age difference. goldigger, maybe? but her days in this business are numbered. read some of my previous posts. i've known her for a long time. sure it is wishful thinking on my part. i have been with alot of women (civilian and stripper)and no one has ever gotten after it in the vip like her. we will see what happens next...