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My husband is missing

TooMuch
TooMuch

Kissed him goodbye at 7 ish this morning. he took the kids to school and then didn't show up to kid holiday show and kid pick up and then another kid holiday show. sitting here at 11 pm, police are all bulletined and looking for him and i just want him to pull up. 

Heidiclark
Heidiclark
Wow, I am so sorry! Sending prayers.
bridgie101
bridgie101
Oh my goodness. If he reels in at 3am, drunk as a skunk, he is so dead.

Here I am hoping he's already reeled in, drunk. My heart goes out to you. Hang on in there toomuch!
TooMuch
TooMuch
yeah. I'm hoping for a 3 am too.

I've been brave fronting a bit for kids, friends, and now that everyone is gone to bed (not necessarily to sleep, i know) i realize i've been holding out for him because he is the only one i can be completely real with. so i'm a fuckin mess. please please let him come home.
TooMuch
TooMuch
it is absolutely killing me that i have no way of reaching him. his phone has been straight to voicemail all day and i just keep trying anyway, but that right there is what is killing me. i have got to talk to him.
Thumpa
Thumpa
Oh I'm so sorry.... my fingers are crossed for u and him.... can I be rude and ask if you guys had an arguement or anything beforehand- was he in a really bad mood or anything? Thinking of u
TooMuch
TooMuch
no argument. money stress bothering the both of us, maybe him more than me apparently.

i've called his mom and woken her up at almost 2 in the morning and i feel like shit for it but she is grateful for the call and i know i would be too as a mom.

i still want more than anything for him to pull in bold as brass any second. i dare him.
Katgirl1011
Katgirl1011
I can't even imagine what you must be feeling.. I hope he returns safe. Keep us updated??
OLDBIKER
OLDBIKER
Any further news about your husband?
TooMuch
TooMuch
they found his body this morning. we are devastated.
BCat1000
BCat1000
I have no words. I'm so very sorry. May God be with you and your family.
mollgirl
mollgirl
I am so sorry.
Froxy89
Froxy89
I am so sorry for your loss. No one should ever have to go through that
AnxietyFreak40
AnxietyFreak40
I am so very sorry for your loss. Warm hugs your way.
Christiney
Christiney
oh my god. i'm so sorry.
Heidiclark
Heidiclark
So sorry for your loss.
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